Today I was trying to observe the USCCB’s request of abstaining from meat on all Fridays to help fight against abortion. However, I totally forgot and started eating pizza rolls.
I know it is not Lent yet, but it starts Wednesday.
What exactly would we do we if accidentally ate meat on Ash Wednesday, Good Friday, or a Lenten Friday?
It is very grave matter to do so. You should immediately take it to confession, telling the priest that you intended to give up meat, but just forgot. It is not a mortal sin, but the level of culpability could be increased if you weren’t really taking care to remember.
I didn’t say it was a mortal sin, I said it was grave matter. If you killed a person on accident, wouldn’t you feel more definitely assured of your state of grace if you took it to confession?
In these cases, it’s best to take it to confession even if it isn’t endangering to your soul. Besides, it helps you remember the next Friday.
if you commit a mortal sin unintentionally, (thus making it not a mortal sin) you are still required to mention it in your next confession. you may receive the Blessed Sacrament, but you still should mention it. i have heard that eating meat on fridays or days of abstinence can be grave, (im not sure if it is true) however, *accidentally *forgetting to not eat meat on a friday is far from being a mortal sin, but you should strive to constantly remind yourself not to eat meat. i often struggle with this throughout the year as i try and abstain friday and wednesday but sometimes i forget. its what make us human.
This is true. If one sins, and it’s grave matter, but unintentional, then it’s a venial sin, not a mortal sin.
In this case, it’s not necessary to go to confession, but it’s not a suggestion without merit…!
If he forgets it’s Ash Wednesday and eats a burger, he has committed no sin so there is nothing to confess.
No: keeping abstinence on Ash Wednesday, Good Friday, and Fridays in Lent is an obligation that binds gravely (see Paul VI’s Paenitemini). Therefore, if one should break a required fast or fail to abstain, but not do so on purpose, it would be a venial sin. It is not the case that it would not be a sin…!
Therefore, while it would not be necessary to confess it, nevertheless it might not be a bad idea.
This is not necessarily true. If it’s a venial sin, the Church recommends that you confess it, but doesn’t require that you do so (cf CCC 1458; also, can. 988 §2).
However, there is something to be said for this practice: if you’re uncertain about what makes a sin ‘mortal’, then confessing all grave matter ensures that you don’t neglect to confess all you should. Therefore, while it’s not a ‘requirement’, per se, it’s not a bad idea.
I have run into this many times since I live in the US. The general atmosphere is so secular that is very hard for me to remember is lent and accidentally I’ve eaten meat on fridays during lent. When I asked my priest about it he said I should confess it. Ever since I’ve been confessing it when it happens.
Since when is an honest accident or mistake any kind of sin, venial OR mortal?
Unless making honest mistakes separates us from God, and I don’t know of any God who works like that. :takeoff:
Of course, we all probably still have it stuck in our mind from school, where we are taught that honest mistakes Will Be scolded, punished, and will go on Your Permanent Record. :tsktsk:
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