Anger is not always a sin…
For Paul commands us to be angry (imperative), but do not sin:
Merely being angry, emotively, internally – is not automatically a sin.
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The second sin is when act in anger toward the person you are angry with. Notice that you say words of anger to your brother. This sin is one-on-one, between you and the person you are angry with. The Sanhedrin or "Council as some Bibles translate, was the supreme Jewish council with the power to pass the death sentence.
Yes. But only if you’re wrong; it’s an corporal work of mercy to admonish the sinner.
The third sin is public. You insult your brother, calling him a fool publicly. You ruin his good name and cause scandal. It is the sin of detraction. It is malicious criticism intended to lessen someone’s esteem or reputation. It is public. This earns you the fires of Hell.
Note:
The words, “you fool”, are not accusing a brother of mere lack of intelligence; rather those specific words are used in the psalms to mark out people who are damned. eg: “The fool says in his heart, there is no God”. Therefore, The fool, in a scriptural, legal, sense – is a person who is wicked, predatory, and worthy of damnation.
To say a person is ‘a fool’, is to accuse them of being atheistic, against the law, and a damnable predator/murder. That’s why, the accusation is so serious – and if proven false is damnable to the one falsely accusing; For you are accusing them of a crime worthy of death – so you too are subject to death.eg: “Do unto others what you would have them do unto you”, and “The measure with which you measure will be measured back to you”
On the other hand, if what you say is TRUE, then it may not end up with you going to hell.
It isn’t about the exact words you use. It is about 1) anger in the heart, 2) acting in anger toward your brother and, 3) public acts of detraction. Each carries a more severe liability and punishment.
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*]You think to yourself, "He is liar and can’t be trusted.
*]You say to him, “You are a liar and can’t be trusted!”
*]You say to a room full of people, “He is a liar. Never trust him!”
It’s better to keep your mouth shut.
-Tim-
Aye. Better to keep your mouth shut, and very difficult to do in a moment of anger; even with gritted teeth trying to act as jail bars for a hopelessly loose tongue that can strike faster than a serpent, and quicker than the mind can process the consequences of what is being said.