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GratefulDad
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This is a pretty interesting view of the “Change”.
mobilearchdiocese.org/tem…iArticle22.htm
"Change
Can people change? We would certainly admit that we human beings need to change. There is a great deal about us that needs improving. But are we human beings capable of changing?
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It is obvious that, while Jesus called and helped, each person had to respond actively. First, the person had to take responsibility for him/herself. If we wish to change, we cannot blame others for the way we are. It is so easy for us to make excuses for ourselves. It is easy for us to say that we could change if only our spouse would change, if only our children would change, if only our boss would change, if only our neighbors would change, if only he would change, if only she would change, if only the situation would change. And God looks at us and says: “If only you would change.”
Our main mission on earth is not to change the world, it is to save ourselves. It is not to change other people, it is to change ourselves. Each of us can probably look back and remember times and places when life treated us unfairly. But to blame the world for our faults is self destructive. It is an exercise in futility to blame our parents, to blame society, to blame anyone but ourselves.
In the Gospel of John (5:6) Jesus asked a sick man, “Do you wish to be healed?” This may seem a foolish question. However, Jesus wished to know if the man wished to change his life. If the man was healed, he could no longer lie on his mat and feel sorry for himself. He would have to get up, carry his mat, and go forth to live as an active member of society. There was a point to Jesus asking the man: “Do you wish to be healed?”
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.
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Can people change? The real question is: “Can I change?” The answer is emphatically, but conditionally, “Yes.” If we will take responsibility for our own lives, stop blaming others and hold ourselves responsible for what we are; if we heed the call of the One who calls us to follow Him; if we allow the powerful love of God to provide the strength we need for the difficult process of change, then our lives will be changed for the good."
mobilearchdiocese.org/tem…iArticle22.htm
"Change
Can people change? We would certainly admit that we human beings need to change. There is a great deal about us that needs improving. But are we human beings capable of changing?
.
.
.
It is obvious that, while Jesus called and helped, each person had to respond actively. First, the person had to take responsibility for him/herself. If we wish to change, we cannot blame others for the way we are. It is so easy for us to make excuses for ourselves. It is easy for us to say that we could change if only our spouse would change, if only our children would change, if only our boss would change, if only our neighbors would change, if only he would change, if only she would change, if only the situation would change. And God looks at us and says: “If only you would change.”
Our main mission on earth is not to change the world, it is to save ourselves. It is not to change other people, it is to change ourselves. Each of us can probably look back and remember times and places when life treated us unfairly. But to blame the world for our faults is self destructive. It is an exercise in futility to blame our parents, to blame society, to blame anyone but ourselves.
In the Gospel of John (5:6) Jesus asked a sick man, “Do you wish to be healed?” This may seem a foolish question. However, Jesus wished to know if the man wished to change his life. If the man was healed, he could no longer lie on his mat and feel sorry for himself. He would have to get up, carry his mat, and go forth to live as an active member of society. There was a point to Jesus asking the man: “Do you wish to be healed?”
.
.
.
Can people change? The real question is: “Can I change?” The answer is emphatically, but conditionally, “Yes.” If we will take responsibility for our own lives, stop blaming others and hold ourselves responsible for what we are; if we heed the call of the One who calls us to follow Him; if we allow the powerful love of God to provide the strength we need for the difficult process of change, then our lives will be changed for the good."