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So, I have been out with this girl on 3 dates now and I thought it was all going really well - you know the usual things, a lot in common, laugh a lot together, talk a lot etc.
I thought everything was going ok until she told me that at the moment she only sees me as a good friend. She also said though that could develop into more over time.
She told me she enjoys spending time with me and she has asked me to go for lunch next week.
I feel really sad at this because I thought we both seemed to be enjoying each others company and she has even asked me for lunch next week, yet I get the classic “just friends, thanks”.
I am a very impulsive person and my instinct is to think that I should just stop seeing her all together so that I will not get hurt further, or do I continue to see her in the hope that she will like me in a romantic kind of way.
So:
What do you think?
What would you do in my situation?
As always, it would be great to have a woman’s perspective?
I thought everything was going ok until she told me that at the moment she only sees me as a good friend. She also said though that could develop into more over time.
She told me she enjoys spending time with me and she has asked me to go for lunch next week.
I feel really sad at this because I thought we both seemed to be enjoying each others company and she has even asked me for lunch next week, yet I get the classic “just friends, thanks”.
I am a very impulsive person and my instinct is to think that I should just stop seeing her all together so that I will not get hurt further, or do I continue to see her in the hope that she will like me in a romantic kind of way.
So:
What do you think?
What would you do in my situation?
As always, it would be great to have a woman’s perspective?