I think I am following most of this thread, so here goes:
Sort of like: “Why would someone bother to bring a child into the world at all when they might turn out bad? Just creating the infant soul gives them the right to choose! I’d rather be alone than take that chance!” So thereby God of Life would be limited to fearing the potential of His lesser creation, putting Him in a position of idolatry where a creature is feared more than God == who is supposed to be all powerful. That God does not commit idolatry against even Himself at the Divine level could be an argument for the Hypostatic union, where we have Father, only Consubstantiated Son, and the Holy Spirit which proceeds from Father and Son. Thus, everything in the Divine Substance is greater than the Laws which we creatures rely on to interpret and describe the Holy Trinity (Interestingly enough, this means that Jesus in the Garden, faced the idolatry test of fearing murderous creatures more than Father. He asked the Father to let the cup pass from Him – but to His captors, He spoke not a word ‘like a lamb to the slaughter’ to beg for His freedom. The Father faced the test also, did He spare His soon to be Crucified Son, or look hold fast and give up His only Begotten Son like He had tested Abraham over?)
Also: Satan didn’t start up with a name that roughly translates into “Accuser”. The Devil got a look at the Living God’s Faith, Hopes, and Love for all Creation, got snarky about not being the Divine Center of it, then packed up and left – to harass everybody else who stayed in God’s camp.
Followed by: “But there exists a universe where every citizen’s free-will choice is good. It’s called Heaven, and no one is forced to live there.” (The Kingdom of Heaven is all around us.)
And: “Could an infinite God create something He couldn’t move?” A: “Yes, not because it would be Big, but because it would be Fragile. Free will, once touched is not completely free. Free will agreeing to be touched is one thing, and free will forced is can cross over into rape.” The more free will you have because you are not enslaved by sin, the more you can do. That is what those who practice virtue tend to be stronger than those who hope to convert or make a last minute stand – the have reserves to draw on. That is also why those who are more developed (in either direction good or bad) are held more accountable for their actions. To more who is given, more is expected. (Which could lead me into a whole discussion about the sanctity of the Immaculate Conception, but I digress

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(Sort of like the science question: When we observe something, do we change or influence it?)
I mean, honestly, I know some of the dilemma – but God has free will too. And one of things God does, being All Good, is Create. However, understanding the importance of giving his Creation a chance to decide what they want, He does so. Even if it means that they walk away, and He – having created them – have to take responsibility for some of the mess they left behind for those who want to be with God. Hence, the Passion Death and Resurrection – where the bill for Satan’s attacks was paid by Jesus Christ.
Sorry this got so long. I was going down a different path, went back and erased most of it, then it got long again.
Yours in Christ