In my opinion, people that are “investigating” the Church shouldn’t ever be grouped with people that have aleady accepted the Church as truth, but only need to learn Church rites, traditions and rituals.
Another thing, RCIA shouldn’t dwell on the things Catholics disagree with protestants about, but stress the things we all agree on. This would keep the minds of converts wide open, and not slam the door on them before they have time to grasp and really appreciate what the full faith has to offer.
After reading this thread, it is very obvious that there are more versions of RCIA in practice than there are protestant denominations.
But, another thing that happens is that those from other denominations do intense personal research, often for years and years, and when they finally do show up for RCIA, they are already functioning as Catholics, although without receiving the Sacraments, and in those cases (and only those cases) it is appropriate to sit down with the person, give them the Baltimore Catechism final exam or something similar to ensure that they actually do know their “book learning,” their prayers, the order of the Mass, and so on, do the Diocescan interview sheet with them to ensure that they are actually eligible to become Catholic, then fill in any blanks they may have, how ever long that may take, then test them again, then send them to First Confession, and then give them the Sacraments of Confirmation and First Holy Communion the following Sunday, or as soon as possible, without making them wait for the Easter Vigil.
I couldn’t agree more.
I have had some change in heart since my earlier post in this thread as I became frustrated this morning.
I am in quoted above situation with studying the Church for years, have a valid Baptism, already consider myself a Catholic as I practice the Church fully as much as the Church allows me to. But I actually left Mass this morning in frustration during the Eucharist as I am starting to feel like a total outsider as I’m not worthy of receiving the Eucharist as everyone else is, and feel I am just in the way during communion, so I left when it started.
Also the Sacrament of Reconciliation is not available to me via my priest. And today ater Mass, the priest was going to perform the Sacrament of Annointing the Sick to “Catholics” who had certain chronic ailments. But the bulletin said “to Catholics”, so I guess that excluded me. But I am retired on disability for many conditions, one being I have heart disease, on meds for an irregular heart beat, etc, and it is serious in nature but again, I am not worthy.
Of course, when I go to Adoration, no one is there except a person or two, so I feel at home and consider that “my” time to be with Christ. I feel welcomed there.
Now in my head, I understand it is this way at ALL parishes. But it is hardening my heart towards my parish. I pray about this everyday, and I realize I only have a few more weeks to go. But if I don’t change my mind, once I am a full fledged member, I am going to move to a nearby different parish. That way, I can put out of my mind this feeling of being unwelcomed.