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Hello,
I am asking again for prayer on the matter of my pastor’s wife. My attractions and thoughts about her have continued to diminish, which is great. My prayer request, now, is for her, that she would desire to be disciplined about being faithful to her husband in her heart.
As part of the background to this story, I am someone who has struggled with same-sex attractions at different points in my life. I think that others have known this about me (whether by intuition or by me telling them), and one of those people is my pastor. One time at a dinner party, he told a story about his cousin, who also struggles with same-sex attraction. The pastor said, “I know he wasn’t born that way, because he used to have a huge crush on my wife, and, to be honest with you, I would rather have him feel that way for my wife than for any guys.” Perhaps the same kind of reasoning has been going through his mind in this particular case. If that is so, I appreciate his reasoning, but I don’t want to be attached to his wife, even if it means that I am showing a movement away from same-sex attractions. Does that make sense?
Please continue to keep this matter in your prayers.
Thanks,
Dan
I am asking again for prayer on the matter of my pastor’s wife. My attractions and thoughts about her have continued to diminish, which is great. My prayer request, now, is for her, that she would desire to be disciplined about being faithful to her husband in her heart.
As part of the background to this story, I am someone who has struggled with same-sex attractions at different points in my life. I think that others have known this about me (whether by intuition or by me telling them), and one of those people is my pastor. One time at a dinner party, he told a story about his cousin, who also struggles with same-sex attraction. The pastor said, “I know he wasn’t born that way, because he used to have a huge crush on my wife, and, to be honest with you, I would rather have him feel that way for my wife than for any guys.” Perhaps the same kind of reasoning has been going through his mind in this particular case. If that is so, I appreciate his reasoning, but I don’t want to be attached to his wife, even if it means that I am showing a movement away from same-sex attractions. Does that make sense?
Please continue to keep this matter in your prayers.
Thanks,
Dan