8 weeks left and thoughts

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I have about 8 weeks left till I fully come into The Catholic Church. I know it is the right decision. But these little thoughts, and worries keep hinting in the back of my mind. What is going on?
 
I think that’s where faith comes in. Honestly, how many Catholics or any other Christians for that matter do you know who can honestly tell you they have perfect understanding and no questions about their faith. If they say they do they’re probably not telling you the truth. The thing about the Catholic Church is the Catechism teaches that the church doctrine is infallible so whether or not you understand it perfectly you can trust it. There is this great book I’ve been reading. Faith of Our Fathers by a Cardinal Gibbons. Must read!
 
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It often happens when you do something life-changing.

You know how things are— but you worry about changing what you know for something different.

Like getting married. You know what it’s like to be a single person. You know you’re pretty darn fond of so-and-so. But… will you feel the same way 10 years from now? 30 years? 50 years? You like him at arm’s length right now… will you like sharing physical space, or will your habits drive each other crazy? Will you like sharing finances? What about when one of you is ready to start a family and the other one likes things the way they are for a little bit longer? Would it be safer to just keep things the way they are, since you already know what it’s like?

etc, etc, etc.
 
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It is totally normal and understandable. Feelngs about the steps you are about to take. Like a bride contemplating her new life after marriage. You have your sponsor to talk with. And know that your community is praying for you and we on this forum also.

Welcome home.
 
I didn’t have a single doubt about my decision until Easter Vigil, and it’s all about recognizing that voice for what it is – the Devil’s. And boy, did he not me nor you to become Catholic! Hold firm, and most of all, pray!
 
Dear Kathleen, it’s normal for us to experience concerns before we take a big step which changes our lives.
Our much-loved Saint Therese of Lisieux was plagued with doubts just before she committed her life to her Carmelite Community.
Thank God she listened to the assurances of her superior, or our loss would have been great!
God bless you.
 
Funny I always wonder what’s it’s like for the cradle because not all of them are thrilled with no choice.

Anyway…

No one should accuse you of weakness because it’s natural to question everything.

I decided to join because I thought it would bring balance to my life.
 
The closer you get to Christ, the more the prince of lies will poke you.
Be at peace. Welcome home.
 
I guess it is normal to feel bewildered when taking such a big step. I would sometimes doubt myself even when I am right.
 
Thank you my CAF FAMILY!! I appreciate the feedback, love, and support!
 
Welcome home. The Devil never lets up. Remember Christ is stronger. God bless.
 
My “roller coaster ride” slowed down after my first confession so I could enjoy Holy week to the fullest. It started again 8 days after Easter Vigil. What I notice is that going “down hill” is not that steep anymore but more or less like a “kiddie’s roller coaster ride”.
 
These warm words of welcome are truly life giving. If I ever become a Catholic I’ll try to remember you Crocus!
 
“What is going on?” Something completely normal. One of the reasons I have never had a girlfriend is the fact that I was scared of the change, I’m so used to being single I just can’t imagine myself otherwise.

I suppose you have spent your life being non-catholic, and the change scares you like t scared everyone , the part of your brain plays tricks on you, no doubt fruit of the devil. Be brave sister, talk to God all you can!
 
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