A Christmas Vocation

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I have always loved Christmas. Since I was a child, I was moved by the Christmas story. I remember having wonderful day-dreams of what it must have been like to be Joseph and Mary knocking on doors looking for a birthing spot for Jesus. Even after many years of theological and biblical studies and a deeper and more academic understanding of all the elements in Luke’s infancy narratives I remain deeply moved by the fact that Jesus was born with a price on his head.

While the story of Christmas lends itself to beautiful pageantry and a dreamy quality about a star-filled night with angels singing, shepherds coming to pay homage to the new-born King, the charm and romance of the manger that we have added to it over centuries, it is still a story about an innocent child whose right to be born was denied. It was the courage of his Blessed Mother and beloved foster father that protected his right to enter into the world according to the Will of the Father. All too often, at Christmas we forget that this child was born with a death sentence. This stark realization adds balance and reality to Christmas. It is more than a beautiful story of our Lord’s birth. Matthew’s Gospel leads us into the beginning of the Passion of our Lord Jesus Christ.

At the same time that the child is born, some wise men from an unknown part of the world see a bright star and they set out to find him. They did not know who he was or where he was. Neither did they know that this child was a wanted man until they present themselves at Herod’s court, only to have it revealed to them in a dream that Herod has a sinister plan for the innocent child who nursed at his mother’s breast and was kept warm by the hay in a manger.

Today, Jesus’ life is still threatened before his birth. On Christmas Eve, over one million children will be executed in their mother’s womb, at the very hour in which the Savior of the world was secretly delivered in a manger. They too need protection from a premature, murderous and unjust death sentence. Like the Wise Men from the East, the Franciscan Brothers of Life are looking for these children.

We are praying, meditating, doing penance, preparing our Christmas liturgy as are other Christians. But the few of us that there are, will not be spending the days before Christmas at the mall or home baking cookies. We won’t even be preparing for a family gathering on Christmas Day. Our meal will probably be a simple one that day, because we will not have had enough time or money to buy and prepare a turkey and all its trimmings.

As Christmas day quickly approaches the number of men and women looking for an abortion actually increases. This is the time of year when abortions are at their peak. The number of people with depression increases. Many are elderly or persons who have been chronically ill, for whom Christmas is the saddest time of year. The suicide wishes and attempts rise exponentially. It’s incredible to think that at the time when the salvation of the world was born, human life is most vulnerable.

The Brothers are spending more time in prayer and in service to the vulnerable at this time of year. We are awakened someone who wants to take his life. We are spending our Christmas prep time with these people, either at the hospital or at their homes. Like our holy Father Francis who prayed at the Christmas manger, we are spending countless hours with men and women who want to kill their babies, or who want to take their own lives. At this time of year, the average night’s sleep for us is about three hours. Our average prayer day is about five hours. We spend the other 16 hours in pregnancy centers, on crisis hotlines, in homes or at a hospital with a depressed person who believes that there is no hope for life.

But I don’t want to leave you with a bleak image of Christmas; because it’s not. For the Franciscan Brothers of Life, Christmas is a mystery of hope. It is the beginning of the Paschal Mystery, for he who was not sin, became sin to so that he might die on Good Friday and come back to us on Easter Sunday. Our Franciscan vision Christmas is filled with great joy knowing that Christ is born to restore all things back to the Father at the appropriate time. Therefore, our celebration, even though it will be simple, poor and attended by a few exhausted friars, will be a joyful one. That night, at Midnight Mass, we will present to the child in the manger the only act of adoration that we can afford, our simple attempt to bring life into the world and to protect it. Like the shepherds of the area, the Franciscan Brothers of Life will have no expensive gifts for the newborn King, because every cent, every ounce of energy, every moment of the days preceding Christmas will have been spent preparing mangers for unwanted unborn children and pointing to the sky so that the sick and the hopeless can also see the Star of Bethlehem and follow it.

This Christmas, could the child in the manger be calling you to be a Brother of Life?

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Thank you, for sharing the Christmas vocation.
We need to know about all these things. Many of us
still even dont know about it properly.
 
Br. JR, that in itself is a beautiful Christmas narrative.

For those of us not called to religious life, how can we help the Brothers of Life in their work?
 
Wow Brother that was beautiful. You guys do great work in the world. May God give you and your brothers the strenght to continue your noble mission.👍
 
Wow Brother that was beautiful. You guys do great work in the world. May God give you and your brothers the strenght to continue your noble mission.👍
Pray that God will send us more brothers. The call to the Brothers of Life is very interesting, but also easy to miss. Most religious brothers labor in ministries that are very visible: soup kitchens, hospitals, education, missions, youth, shelters, senior citizens and more.

The Franciscan Brother of Life is in a field that is not easily seen from the road, as I like to call it. I believe that it’s difficult to see men whose lives are consecrated to being in prayer 3 to 5 hours a day, owning nothing except what they need for their ministry or to take care of each other, and protecting the life of the unborn, those who feel hopeless and those that society wants to euthenize. Abortions and euthenasia happen behind closed doors, not in a school, soup kitchen or parish.

Sometimes God moves men to give their lives for the unborn and those who are helpless, but these men often don’t know that there is a place for them in the Church. Therefore, they either do nothing or move to another area of ministry and religious life.

The fact that there are millions of children being killed, millions of men and women who want to have their babies and are afraid, or millions of people who are sick, depressed and feel hopeless, tells us that Jesus needs a brother to take care of him. As long as there are unwanted babies, expectant parents who are afraid, and sick people whose lives are threatened, there will be a shortage of brothers. These people need a brother who will love them the way that Jesus loves them and who will show them how valuable their life is in God’s eyes.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
I didn’t realize that abortions are at there peak during Christmas time. When I was younger 2 weeks after me & my fiance broke up I found out I was pregnant with my 2nd daughter and she was due very close to Christmas. While I was going through my own ‘agony’ I finally made the decision that she was to be born too close to Christmas and my 2 thoughts were this- I felt I was doing something wrong to Jesus on his birthday and I knew that I would ruin every Christmas from that year forward.

What is amazing is that I had just a tiny bit of faith…not enough to have that go through my mind-I believe it was because I had just moved in with my grandmother who was a devout catholic, always with the Rosary in her hand that I received that mercy. She had no clue I was pregnant.

We just celebrated her 26th birthday a few days ago and what memories I have now and a whole bunch of gratitude. I’ve thanked God every day for my children and now my grandchildren.
 
I didn’t realize that abortions are at there peak during Christmas time. When I was younger 2 weeks after me & my fiance broke up I found out I was pregnant with my 2nd daughter and she was due very close to Christmas. While I was going through my own ‘agony’ I finally made the decision that she was to be born too close to Christmas and my 2 thoughts were this- I felt I was doing something wrong to Jesus on his birthday and I knew that I would ruin every Christmas from that year forward.

What is amazing is that I had just a tiny bit of faith…not enough to have that go through my mind-I believe it was because I had just moved in with my grandmother who was a devout catholic, always with the Rosary in her hand that I received that mercy. She had no clue I was pregnant.

We just celebrated her 26th birthday a few days ago and what memories I have now and a whole bunch of gratitude. I’ve thanked God every day for my children and now my grandchildren.
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My grandson was almost born under the same conditions. His birthday is on Dec. 20, induced et al. When he was born, I consecrated him to Our Lady. Today he is almost 14, 6ft tall with size 12 shoes.

His mother, my daughter, has had a couple of abortions though. i think of my ‘other’ grandchildren so very often. please pray for her soul…😦
 
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My grandson was almost born under the same conditions. His birthday is on Dec. 20, induced et al. When he was born, I consecrated him to Our Lady. Today he is almost 14, 6ft tall with size 12 shoes.

His mother, my daughter, has had a couple of abortions though. i think of my ‘other’ grandchildren so very often. please pray for her soul…😦
I will put your daughter on our prayer list for midnight mass. If you want, go to the website for the Franciscan Brothers of Life. Send a confidential e-mail with her name and her patron saint. We will make sure that her patron saint hears about her and prays for her. You need not send her last name.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
My grandson was almost born under the same conditions. His birthday is on Dec. 20, induced et al. When he was born, I consecrated him to Our Lady. Today he is almost 14, 6ft tall with size 12 shoes.

His mother, my daughter, has had a couple of abortions though. i think of my ‘other’ grandchildren so very often. please pray for her soul…😦
I know how you feel…my daughter that I was speaking about is now a recovering drug addict and she also had 2 abortions. I think of my grandchildren everynight, how I wish they were here so I could hug & kiss them and watch them play with their siblings and cousins. I ask God and the Blessed Virgin Mary to hold them and give them a kiss for me…its strange that I don’t know them but I miss them terribly and there is always a sense someone is missing - actually 2 someones.

When your daughter is ready…direct her towards Rachel’s Vineyard.

Maybe there should be a group for grandparents of aborted grandchildren as well and have something where we offer special prayers or devotions for our grandchildren who have been aborted…a sign of love & reparation in their honor
 
I know how you feel…my daughter that I was speaking about is now a recovering drug addict and she also had 2 abortions. I think of my grandchildren everynight, how I wish they were here so I could hug & kiss them and watch them play with their siblings and cousins. I ask God and the Blessed Virgin Mary to hold them and give them a kiss for me…its strange that I don’t know them but I miss them terribly and there is always a sense someone is missing - actually 2 someones.

When your daughter is ready…direct her towards Rachel’s Vineyard.

Maybe there should be a group for grandparents of aborted grandchildren as well and have something where we offer special prayers or devotions for our grandchildren who have been aborted…a sign of love & reparation in their honor
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You are so right! My first aborted grandchild was eliminated on the feast of John the Baptist. Fitting. So I named him John Benjamin (dad’s name). I was so overwhelmed I needed a couple of days to myself. I drove to the cottage and that night, while in bed, I could hear moaning. It startled me and I searched where the noise was coming from. Did not find it. Went back to bed to cry and pray…

This was 9 years ago. And she has had one more. I could not compute that one…I was numb…

Let us pray for each other, our girls and our beautiful angels in heaven…
 
I will put your daughter on our prayer list for midnight mass. If you want, go to the website for the Franciscan Brothers of Life. Send a confidential e-mail with her name and her patron saint. We will make sure that her patron saint hears about her and prays for her. You need not send her last name.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
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Thank you so much Father…
 
I will put your daughter on our prayer list for midnight mass. If you want, go to the website for the Franciscan Brothers of Life. Send a confidential e-mail with her name and her patron saint. We will make sure that her patron saint hears about her and prays for her. You need not send her last name.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
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I have done as you required. I hope you received the e-mail. God bless…
 
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