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Like “progress”, “judgmentalism” could have an improper posirive usage. Here’s an example: Though I don’t listen to his stuff anymore, George Carlin, I think, joked about how, at funerals, you would think the dead is always going to heaven the way he/she is spoken of by the priest or minister. It’s true. Someone dies and automatically, someone, who doesn’t know the deceased will say, “He/she is going to a better place”. How does that person know. The deceased could be in hell from selling cocaine to minors–who knows? Being judgmental is about judging someon’e life without knowing about it (and even then, you can’t read minds). I think it would be more profitable for people to be reminded by the clergy presiding that we know not the day nor the hour.
Of course, positive judgmentalism is always better than the negative kind. But then, you never know that some kid, who saw the misdeeds of the one the priest is assuring will be in heaven or the acquaintance believes will be in a better place, won’t be scandalized (not knowing how we adults get sentimentalism mixed up with charity) by thinking that behavior is ok. I think it’s better to instead make excuses for the person’s behavior. That way, sentimentalism is avioded and justice is truly done to the deceased person’s name (or the name of someone not present in a room of gossip about him/her).
Just a thought.
Of course, positive judgmentalism is always better than the negative kind. But then, you never know that some kid, who saw the misdeeds of the one the priest is assuring will be in heaven or the acquaintance believes will be in a better place, won’t be scandalized (not knowing how we adults get sentimentalism mixed up with charity) by thinking that behavior is ok. I think it’s better to instead make excuses for the person’s behavior. That way, sentimentalism is avioded and justice is truly done to the deceased person’s name (or the name of someone not present in a room of gossip about him/her).
Just a thought.