I posted this in a different thread earlier today. I hope you find it helpful.
Originally Posted by
dave152
*A close, baptist friend of mine told me today that Mary (via Joseph) gave birth to children after Jesus was born.
I refuted this with, “no Mary was ever-virgin”, however I struggle with supporting this belief.
Where does he get this information that Mary gave birth to additional children? Does the bible in some way claim this?
Where might I find some information to supportmy Catholic belief? Obviously, any support though the bible would be most convincing to him.
Thanks!*
Your friend probably bases his belief that Mary had other children on the verses that speak of the “brother and sisters” of Jesus. In reality, these verses neither prove nor disprove the Protestant OR Catholic belief.
If one reads scripture ONLY as a 21st century English speaker, which many Protestants tend to do ("it says “brother” so by golly it means “brother”) one would have to draw the Protestant conclusion. However, if one reads it like a 1st century, Aramaic speaking Jew, one could just as surely conclude that Mary had no children because the word for “brother” was used not only for a sibling. It was also used for half and step-siblings, cousins, uncles and other relationships. For example, some translations have Abraham’s relationship to Lot being that of “brother” when we know that Lot was, in fact, Abraham’s nephew. Also, throughout the NT we see the word “brother” used to refer to the disciples and all Christians. So the point can’t be proven either way simply on the use of the word “brother”. We need to look at other scriptures for clues.
Perhaps the most obvious proof can be found in John 19:27. Jesus left his mother in the care of a non-relative. In the culture of the day, any other sons that Mary had would have been obligated to care for her. It wouldn’t even have been an issue. To leave his mother in the care of a non-relative if there were sons to care for her would simply have been unheard of. Are we to believe that Jesus used his dying breath to horribley insult his brothers? I don’t think so.
In Matt 28:10 and John 20:17 we see Jesus telling Mary Magdelene to “go and tell my brothers” that he was going to the Father and to meet him in Galilee. Who does Mary run and tell in Matt 28:16 and John 20:18? The disciples! Why would Mary run to the disciples when Jesus had specifically said “my brothers” if Jesus really had blood brothers? Well, there are three possibilities:
- Mary disobeyed. The very first thing she did after seeing her beloved Lord and Savior was alive was to blatently disobey him. No way. Scrap #1.
- Mary was so confused after the shock of seeing Jesus alive that she made a mistake. Maybe. However, Jesus didn’t seem particularly surprised to see the disciples instead of his brothers show up. In fact, his disciples certainly seem to be exactly who he was expecting, in fact who he had wanted to be there. Scrap #2.
- Jesus didn’t have any blood brothers. Mary understood him to mean “brothers” in the much broader sense in which the word was commonly used in that time and culture. This is the only viable option.
In Acts 2:14 Luke records that gathered together were “Mary the mother of Jesus, and his brothers”. OK, so Jesus DID have brothers, right? Well, the very next sentence tells us that those brothers numbered 120 persons!! Is that even humanly possible? If it is all I can say is poor Mary!!
Hope that helps!!
In Christ,
Nancy