Don’t let a few appearances rock you. The core of the Church is still there. Furthermore, I can tell you that even if right now you’re experiencing everything from liturgical dancers to the priest speaking of “Mother God” in your particular parish, it is not going to stay that way.
15 years ago I was in a parish situation which was about as far from the Church I had known as it could be (like you, I grew up in the 60s and went to college in the 70s). I tried to get more involved and to understand, and what I came to understand (mind you, for that particular priest/parish only) was definitely not the understanding I remembered. However, at this time the Internet was starting to get ‘strong’ and I was able to find sites to read about things like Vatican 2, and EWTN, and to keep ‘strong’ in faith. Furthermore, just at the ‘breaking point’, I was able to move to a different state/ parish where the priest gave meaty sermons and great direction. Over the next 10 years, that state got a new bishop who ‘put the smackdown’ on the liturgical crazies and now, the TLM is making a greater appearance, old devotions are ‘popping up’ again, the congregations are increasing, more and more people are showing up for confession, and more and more parishes are (while still ‘communities’) beginning to put an emphasis on "a community in a sacred space (the church) celebrating a sacred liturgy (the Mass) in a sacred manner).
So use your computer wisely. Keep going to your parish and giving a good example (hey, I wear my mantilla), check your bulletin, get to know people, work on some of the ‘projects’ now so that you’ll be able to raise your voice later to ask about having a 40 hours devotion. And while you’re waiting, check out fisheaters and keep up at home on the old devotions. Make yourself a home altar. Get out those Gregorian chant CDs to listen to while you pray. Remember, your faith isn’t limited to 1 hour on Sunday at your local church, it’s 24/7 and if you are stoking your Catholic fires all that time, it’s going to ‘spill over’ into Mass with good effect, if you are patient and diligent.
And God bless!