Definition of RECONCILIATION: To restore friendship and settle differences.
The worst evil is not to commit a sin; but to commit a sin, and then deny it. If we are weak enough to commit a sin, we should be humble enough to admit it.
We ALL need forgiveness. We are all fragile human beings. We all fall victim to sin. When we sin, we should seek out Jesus for forgiveness.
There is a biblical foundation for the Sacrament of Reconciliation.
We need to establish two key beliefs of the Catholic faith:
(1) That Jesus had the power to forgive sin and
(2) That Jesus shared this power with his church.
Jesus shared his power, over sin, with his church in two ways: In a GENERAL way, and in a SPECIFIC way.
One day Jesus was teaching his disciples and asked them “Who do you say that I am?” Simon Peter said, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” Then Jesus said, “You are Peter….I will give you the Keys to the Kingdom of Heaven (I will post my comments on the “Keys to the Kingdom of Heaven” at a later date, if anyone is interested in my thoughts on this.). Whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in Heaven; and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in Heaven. Here Jesus clearly shared his divine power in a GENERAL way with his church.
Jesus also shared, in a SPECIFIC way, his divine power over sin.
On Easter Sunday night, the apostles were gathered together. Jesus appeared to them and said, “Peace be with you. As the Father has sent me, so I send you.” Jesus then said, “Receive the Holy Spirit. Whose sins you forgive are forgiven them; and whose sins you retain, are retained.”
The chief way the church exercises its power over sin is in the Sacrament of Reconciliation.
Recall the parable of the man who had two sons (Luke 15:11-24).
This parable stresses four events:
(1) The son examined his situation
(2) He repented his sinful ways
(3) He confessed his sins, and
(4) He resolved to amend his life.
Now keeping these events in mind, let’s go back to the Sacrament of Reconciliation.
When we” come to our senses,” after sinning, we do exactly what the prodigal son did.
1st - We examine our situation
2nd - We repent our situation
3rd - We confess our sins, and
4th - We resolve to amend our life.
The Catholic Priest does what the father of the prodigal son did.
While the boy was on the way home, but still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion, and ran out to greet him. The boy said to his father, “I have sinned against Heaven and against you.” The father ordered his servants to bring out the finest robe and put it on his son. The father said “ put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet - then celebrate - because this son of his was dead, and has come to life again; he was lost and has been found.”
The father of the prodigal son does four things:
(1) He embraced his son, welcoming him back TOTALLY.
(2) He put shoes on his feet (all free persons wore shoes)
(3) He put a ring on his finger (giving him family status), and
(4) He ordered a banquet.
The Catholic Priest does these same four things in the Sacrament of Reconciliation. The priest (1) welcomes the sinner back, (2) he forgives the sinner in the name of Jesus, (3) he restores the sinner to full Christian family status and (4) he invites the sinner to feast again at the Lord’s supper (our Communion).
Remember - only Jesus can forgive sins. The priest serves as the mediator between the sinner and Jesus. A sinner can go directly to God to ask for forgiveness. However the Catholic church strongly urges sinners to participate in the Sacrament of Reconciliation where counsel and encouragement is available. Asking Jesus to forgive your sins in front of a priest, a minister for God, is a very moving and rewarding event. Also, isn’t it great to hear the priest, mediator for Jesus, say to us “Your sins are forgiven…….“ To hear these words is very meaningful. This Sacrament is a most definite and holy way to reconcile ourselves with our Lord.