Then itās best to ignore some previous posts that seek to scare you about āinfestationā or that itās ātoo lateā for a house blessing. Such posts only encourage you to fear even your own shadow and to feel helpless. You donāt have any reason to be afraid. As long as you pray regularly and even receive daily communion, why worry?
If you let yourself to be afraid, you are only making yourself vulnerable not only to dubious āghostsā, but to your own fears and dark thoughts. And who doesnāt have fears and dark thoughts after losing a sibling? Iām sorry for your loss; try to pray for his soul, for the eternal rest of souls in Purgatory and also ask God to strengthen and preserve your faith and peace of mind. If you say that up until 8 months ago you were a bit sceptical about the afterlife, you understand why I say this; people who mourn their dear ones often obsess themselves about afterlife and this leads them to a sudden renewal of interest in faith which may be vulnerable to various disappointments, doubts, myths, superstitions and so on. Thereās an objective limit to our knowledge about afterlife and nobody has really crossed it, no matter what others say about visions, ghosts, dreams, legends. To be free and to have peace of mind is to accept that nobody really knows.