It is important that both of you have face to face talk before she leaves so that terms can be as amicable as possible.
We’ve done that a couple times.
What skills did she bring with her that motivated you to take her on in the first place?
How has she demonstrated those skills, or does she feel like she is being held back?
Has she maintained a professional appearance?
We thought that she would have strong connections with her previous location that could be helpful to our office. Also, we thought her experience would give us a head start over someone from outside. She never quite demonstrated the skills that a person should’ve developed by now. And she’s never shown initiative to really learn them.
I don’t notice that her appearance is inappropriate, although other women have commented to me that there are times when it is (e.g., leggings, skirt to short).
I don’t know what type of job she was hired to perform.
Clerical, secretarial, receptionist. If you tell her, “I need you to move those boxes from A to B,” she will do it. But she won’t look at the boxes and think, “I should move those boxes from A to B,” and she won’t ask if she should move them.
If you say, “I have a meeting scheduled, please reserve a room,” she’ll do it. She won’t think, ‘He has a meeting scheduled, I’ll need to reserve a room.’ So each time you have to go through a checklist of To Dos with her to make sure she’s done them, even though she’s had the checklist for four years.
If you say, “I need you to put this document in our standard memo format and send it to these people,” she’ll do it. And you can say over and over again, “make it look like the other memos,” and she’ll still not get it right. And it’s likely to be full of mistakes. So then you have to check it. And she’ll fix maybe all of the mistakes, but maybe not. So in the end, it’s faster and easier to do it yourself.
This has happened: I’ll want to send a letter to Dr. Joseph Smith, and she’ll address it to Ms. Joseph Smith. So I’ll patiently tell her it’s for doctor, not Ms. And she’ll apologize and fix it. But this happens time after time.
And of course, it’s Friday today, so she didn’t come in to work because she has a really bad stomach. Seems every Friday she’s been up all night with either a stomach problem or her kids have been sick all night the night before.