I’m so sorry you are going through this. :console: You have my prayers.
Winston Churchill once stated: “If you’re going through hell, don’t stop.” When we’re in the middle of such trials we think we’ll never see the other side, but if we trust in God and do what we know is right, things do work out. This is the voice of experience.
As painful as it is, you can’t make another human being do anything. If your husband never intended to be faithful to his vows, no sacramental marriage took place. It sounds like this may be the case.
If you get a divorce you probably should get an annulment so you will be free–not necessarily for another relationship, athough that may be possible, but so your heart can heal and you can serve God with no hindrances to burden further.
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