Actions between boyfriend and girlfriend

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Good morning everybody.

I know that fornication, so prematrimonial sex, and impure thoughts are a sin, but how about “exciting” kisses, hugs and things like this that can happen between two catholic person that are absolutely sure not to want to have prematrimonial sex? These thoughts in fact do not cause these sins. The Catechism of the Catholic Church doesn’t say anything about it. Tell me your opinion.
 
No offense, but I’m beginning to wonder if you are posting in good faith here. The last thread I saw from you, you were just trying to find a girlfriend who’d love you (in 15 days yet) and now we’re into “exciting” kisses already?

Also, how exactly do you arrive at the idea that an “exciting” kiss or hug is something different from either an impure thought, or a near occasion of an impure thought - in other words, a near occasion of sin to be avoided?

If you’re doing something that is exciting you sexually or is likely to do so, and you’re doing it outside the context of marital sexual intercourse, then you better stop it or you’re putting yourself in danger of committing sin.

“Absolutely sure not to want to have prematrimonial sex” - give me a break. We can logically not want to do all kinds of things and then hormones start flowing and before you know it, you’re doing stuff you never thought you would do. This is basic stuff known to pretty much anybody who’s ever been in a relationship that included romantic kissing and hugging.

Have you actually had any experience with a girlfriend yet? (assuming you are not a troll poster?)
 
From what I can gather, he’s saying he has a girlfriend he loves, but is also asking for advice on how to meet a Catholic girl.
 
I assure you I’m not a troll or something like that. I recently converted to the Catholic Faith and I was trying to make a general picture of all the things that concern sexuality in Catholicism, so that I can know what to do with this topic.
I never had experience with girlfriend, I am just trying to know everything about this not to make future mistakes.
 
And I’m not saying I have a girlfriend, I remained very simple, just telling about “catholic guy and girl”, not “me and my girlfriend I’ve already found”.
 
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