do you give prizes for participation?
I do give prizes for participation, but not all the time. I think prizes are fun and can help encourage kids to participate, but I also think kids shouldn’t always expect to be rewarded for doing what they are supposed to. I just use small pieces of candy.
Another idea I’ve seen is working towards a slightly bigger reward as a group. You give a point every time someone answers a question of brings their homework or whatever and when the class as a whole has 500 points (or whatever) the whole class gets a special treat, cookies or something.
Do you have them hold hands during opening / closing prayers?
I don’t. Kids at that age can be particular about touching others and I don’t think it is worth it.
I do make each of the kids pray though. We light a candle, make the sign of the cross and then recite one of the standard prayers together. Then we read a passage from the Bible and quickly discuss it (what happened and how does it relate to what we will talk about that day). After that each of the kids either says something they want to pray for or something they are thankful for. Even the shyest kid should be able to do that.
I’d appreciate any and ALL advice.
A couple thoughts, I would start out by setting up a routine for how things will happen. Also set up some expectations for behavior. If you don’t start there, it is easy for kids to take advantage of you.
Keep them busy. Always have at least one extra activity in case everything takes less time than you planned. Play games with the kids, do crafts, listen to music, all of these things will engage the kids, especially those with different learning styles.