Advice on me and my family

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Hello, i dont know how to start off but you see ~ i have a few question but please advice me
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My dad is a buddhist and i’m a catholic elect getting baptism this easter… I prayed and say the rosary everyday hoping to see a my family back together again like last time because due to quite lots of argueing like i mention before in my pervious trend ~

But my dad, hes getting worse and worse day by day, his love to me ( his son ) and his daughter is not even equal at all. He rather love his part of the family more to me and my mum. Hes the most person person that done violent to me before, breaking my room thing just because i talk about my cousin because my cousin is bad also you know and dad dont like it. He also shouted at me many times and he didnt even scold his daughter before! I didnt do anything wrong but just telling him that how his daughter so dam no manners to my mum since 3months ago they argue and my dad shouted at me!

Im not gonna say how bad these she do but i give one example: she told her twitter about my aunty mentally abused my grandma? My aunty didnt do that also you know, plus she call my mum a ***** in twitter. I was like wth and told my dad and he shouted and bang my things! And he didnt even scold the daughter but supporting her more!

Why is my dad so mean to me? I feel no love at all from him you know. Plus not only that, another thing also. I recently got my car license but just because during CNY that time in hometown! He and his family part the aunty uncle who and who went to the chinese temple and asking those monk about our year future, and mine is dont drive car because will get accident! And the aunty was bragging about it and my dad too! Tats y i think my dad dont wanna buy me a car! Cmon! Im a catholic, i believe in jesus and im giving my life to
Him, why is my dad believing all this futute thingy?! Last year they said my result will be good but no! Not at all! How can a monk predict the future! Please tell me what to do ~
Dad also threated me before not to pay for my college and buy a car if i dont go work for him. I went! But i dont have interest at cat at all… Hes doing spare part. I like drawing you know but the way he threating me about paying for my college is like telling me my drawing have no future! My life is not about money, is about happiness and living a faithful life. I dont earn much nvm, at least i doing something i love right! Is my future life and not hes!

Please give me advice please ~
Last one, ermm abit shy to say this but i really have bad temptation of lust and masturbation, i try to overcome it but is so hard, i tried everyone advice like ignore it do another thing or pray or say the rosary but its too tempting, my mind only want to do “it” and i let it out! I really cant control! Pleae pray for me. The maximum i can hold is 3-4 days! And i really cant hold it anyway :(. Please help me, im getting baptist and i dont want to caused mortal sin anymore…

Please pray for me, my family…

Thank you and God bless you all, keep yall in my prayer…
 
Pray the rosary and fast for your family. After you are baptized and receive your First Holy Communion, maybe you can attend daily Mass. You will draw strength to deal with your family and the strength to withstand the temptation to fall into mortal sin. Spend some time with Jesus in the Adoration Chapel. Let Him speak to your heart.

God Bless you! I’m praying for you:)
 
I recommend reading the book “The Four Agreements” I think it will help you understand the dynamics of your relationship with your family.
 
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