Advice on my discernment?

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I’m a young teenager who’s been thinking about my vocation ever since I was 9. In 4th grade, I began to think about the priesthood, but in retrospect I don’t think I fully understood what it meant to be a priest.

The thought had went away until my 6th grade year. That year, I felt that I had grown closer to God; learning about the history of the Church and spending time in the Adoration Chapel during Theology were powerful tools. At the end of that school year, the missionary image of Our Lady of Guadalupe arrived at our Parish. Our entire class felt a heartbeat as we venerated the image. At that point, the priesthood was in my head again. It had went away for a little bit, and I began to dream of becoming a medical doctor.

In 7th Grade (last year), I came to fully realize that the Eucharist really is Jesus. I had come to know that when we receive Him, we becoming living, human tabernacles. I had gone to a Holy Thursday Mass that year, in which I felt a tremendously powerful experience. It became clear to me that Christ is present within the Most Blessed Sacrament. In addition, our class took a trip to our Cathedral, and one of our parish priests said Mass Ad Orientem there. That was also an experience which made more sense to me because we should all face Jesus when we pray. In the beginning of that year, I had a crush on this girl whom ended up rejecting me. After my thoughts and emotions cleared, the thought of the priesthood grew stronger and stronger and lasted into the summer.

Finally this year, I shared my experience with knowing the Eucharist with my Religion teacher. She had told me to consider the priesthood. Many family members, and even the parish priest that said Mass Ad Orientem hinted at it as well. Ever since 6th grade, I’ve prayed with fervor about this. I can’t get the thought out of my head, and I can’t help thinking this may be my vocation. I know I’m young to be thinking about this, but at the same time, I know I’ve heard about God calling people at different points in their lives.

My only trouble is passing this thought to my parents. I’ve had enough trouble to get my dad to take me to Mass on Sundays. They think I’m going to be a doctor in the future. So I ask all of you; what should I do?
 
Get a spiritual director. Become an altar server. Read “To Save a Thousand Souls”. Be a holy student, and practice obedience. Be frugal with funds, and pure in thought, word, and deed. And try not to broadcast your intentions!

As for MD, there are other ways of caring for the world. The sacraments were given by the Great Physician Himself. Pray for healing for all who cross your path, no matter who they are.

Resigning yourself to God’s will is another way of saying not to sweat over this, but just do what’s before you, and God will handle the rest. He usually speaks through events.

Blessings,
Mrs Cloisters OP
Lay Dominican
http://cloisters.tripod.com/
http://cloisters.tripod.com/charity/
http://cloisters.tripod.com/holyangels/id9.html/
 
I think you can keep this under your hat. You may or not change your mind, but as you are not even out of high school, you do not need to put your thoughts about the priesthood onto your parents just yet. You have many years ahead of you, and much schooling to get through before even beginning to do anything “concrete” about the priesthood.

Pray for your vocation, pray for your parents and visit the idea with them at a later time.
 
Thank you. I actually already am an altar server; have been since I was 9. It actually gives me much joy.
 
I am drawn to the words on a sticky on my screen: to act justly; to love tenderly; to walk humbly with your God.

Happy New Year!
 
Yes, if you live your life by the words that Cloisters just posted, no one, your parents included, will be surprised someday when you say you want to become a priest.
 
Sorry, off topic, but you have impeccable grammar and punctuation for a teenager. I’ve seen posts on this forum that lack both, which makes it hard to take the author’s view or opinion seriously. Your skill with the written word advances the credibility of your claim that you discern a call to a religious vocation, and I say may God bless you on your journey.
 
“Sorry, off topic, but you have impeccable grammar and punctuation for a teenager. I’ve seen posts on this forum that lack both, which makes it hard to take the author’s view or opinion seriously.”

Lack both? Great, I guess you saw my posts then. I feel a bit embarrassed to be getting called out for it though.

Jokes aside, to the young man who made this thread. Let some more years go by and if this desire grows within that time then I look forward to hearing about your journey to the priesthood. It’s certainly a vocation for a specific sort of bloke, and if your heart remains eager as you grow older then by the will of God I’m sure you will make a great one.

-With the kindest regards, James.

(EDIT: In relation to your question)
I’ll also add that by the time you are older [finishing high school], you won’t need your father to take you to mass. By then you have the choice to form your own path with or without their assistance, and whatever you decide they’ll have to accept it.

So bide your time, wait and grow more wisdom. And then if by the time you are an adult the priesthood is what God wants you to be, nothing will ever change that.

-Kindest regards, James.
 
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Thanks! This is actually the first time someone’s pointed that out. I don’t normally take “shortcuts” when writing to begin with.
 
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