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Maryam
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Hi everyone,
I just wanted to know if there are other WOMEN like me in this forum when it comes to not liking being bombarded constantly with affection by someone you are in a relationship with? And since this is a family forum…This question goes to the married gals as well.
Am I normal to not like affection being shown to me constantly? As a woman I like holding hands, a hug here and there… that is romantic to me… BUT, I cannot stand when I am always subjected to constant affection.
I mean is it necessary that every place I go to that I must hold hands or walk arm and arm ALL THE TIME?
Is it wrong to want a breather from being shown affection constantly?
I know GUYS will think this is yet another reason why men can’t understand women LOL
In a past relationship my ex would constantly want to hug and be arm and arm all the time… It was cute at first, then got to be annoying that he was like this even as I was driving the car at times! Not to mention the looks I would get from other drivers. LOL
I know… some will say “Awww… he was just showing you he likes you ALOT”… But, I guess you have to be in my shoes to know why I felt this way.
I am ROMANTIC to the core and romance to me is more than holding hands and hugging… A man can know my likes (ex. books) and get me a book as a surprise and this will touch me deeply since he actually was listening to me in our conversations about some of the things I love in life.
Anyway… I may get bombed with virtual TOMATOES and BOO’ing… but, I am jumping right into this new thread anxiously awaiting your opinions and comments. lol
God bless all
I just wanted to know if there are other WOMEN like me in this forum when it comes to not liking being bombarded constantly with affection by someone you are in a relationship with? And since this is a family forum…This question goes to the married gals as well.
Am I normal to not like affection being shown to me constantly? As a woman I like holding hands, a hug here and there… that is romantic to me… BUT, I cannot stand when I am always subjected to constant affection.
I mean is it necessary that every place I go to that I must hold hands or walk arm and arm ALL THE TIME?
Is it wrong to want a breather from being shown affection constantly?
I know GUYS will think this is yet another reason why men can’t understand women LOL
In a past relationship my ex would constantly want to hug and be arm and arm all the time… It was cute at first, then got to be annoying that he was like this even as I was driving the car at times! Not to mention the looks I would get from other drivers. LOL
I know… some will say “Awww… he was just showing you he likes you ALOT”… But, I guess you have to be in my shoes to know why I felt this way.
I am ROMANTIC to the core and romance to me is more than holding hands and hugging… A man can know my likes (ex. books) and get me a book as a surprise and this will touch me deeply since he actually was listening to me in our conversations about some of the things I love in life.
Anyway… I may get bombed with virtual TOMATOES and BOO’ing… but, I am jumping right into this new thread anxiously awaiting your opinions and comments. lol
God bless all