A lot of affording Catholic school in a parish or non-diocesan but Catholic school with a building and teachers depends on where a family lives. Having more than one school in the area from which to choose helps keep the costs down. Regular contributions to the parish help a lot, because there is usually one price for parishioners and non-pairshioners, or one price for Catholics and another for non-Catholics. Even the tithing system set up by such dioceses as Witchita is wonderful, but unfortunately not in practice in all dioceses. Fund raisers I have found as helpful include Market Day, Scrip (Manna, GLS, etc.), pizza sales. I personally don’t like Race for Education, wrapping paper, and any chocolate sales. Some schools offer a Las Vegas Night and silent auctions.
How do we pay for it? We have 8 Catholic elementary schools (PreK3-8) in our immediate suburb, and more in the neighboring suburbs. Competition keeps costs down. We contribute to our parish, and make sure it is properly recorded. We pay $3750 for two children for tutition. We also pay $120 for draw down, $75 for Race for Education, participate in Draw Down night, volunteer where we best can help. We decided to save part of our money by driving older cars. We buy a lot of our clothes “experienced.” We live in a good but not fabulous neighborhood. We don’t go out much. I run a business from home, in addition to my husband’s income.
However, as Guy said, the primary educators of children and keeping them Catholic are the parents. If you are staying home anyway and plan to continue to do so, you might look into home education. It is legal in all 50 states, does not require a teaching certificate, and might be practical for your situation. Enriching and home teaching religion along with CCD/ PSR/ Rel. Ed. might be a good way to start this.
If this wasn’t my second time around raising children, I would be inclined to home educate mine. But we love our school, and think it is well worth the money. We’ll see what happens come time for high school. I am dreading the $7,000-$8,000 a year per child for tuition. We are seriously thinking of moving to a school district that has an excellent public high school, a real gem where my nieces and nephews attend/ have attended, and heavily suplementing their religious education.