I’ve been a member of a religion forum for about 6 years now, dominated by a mix of non-Catholic Christians. I’m still there, slogging away, and learning. I came to that forum as a lapsed and non-aligned Christian, interested in seeking valid dogma and doctrine from among the wide variety of choices available, and highly critical of the arguments, divisions, differences, and self-righteousness of many of the people I met there and before then.
The mix includes individuals, Calvinists, Baptists, AOG, Lutherans, non-church-going Christians (basically fundamental), the full raft of non-denoms, a few Catholics, rarely, some of almost any corner of the milieu of western Christianity, and some atheists both gentle and militant, agnostics, you name it, including some new agers and Course in Miracles types. Some come and go, others have been around as long as I have.
Once I had made a lot of effort to understand all the doctrinal positions I encountered, argued, debated, shared, and my own bad behaviors, I got over being angry with what I saw as hypocrisy and self righteous, judgmental, condemning, confused, divisive Christianity and whatever other bad behaviors and nutty ideas, I was led finally to convert to Catholicism - in part because I started spontaneously praying the Rosary, and in part because logic led me away from the moving target of non-Catholic Christianity.
In all that time, I’ve been imperfect, ill behaved, and at times, God has used me to reach others. I’ve been inspired to speak on behalf of my adopted faith, and to try to explain why on EARTH I could or would become Catholic. It’s not all been pretty, but I’ve grown, A LOT. If I were to give advice, and I wouldn’t, really…I’d say hang in there, be prepared to encounter your own humanity, and pray. A lot.
Examine your conscience daily, and also preferably before you make a donkey of yourself in writing. It can make a difference with others, and unquestionably, it has made one with me. I am friends with people who in the beginning could not stand to listen to, almost hated, and some of these have turned into valuable friendships, in spite of our disagreements. It is “rubber to the road” ecumenism, and it’s good for the soul. It teaches. Everyone.
I’m here because it isn’t enough to be in battle all the time, or “on the front line” as a self identified converting Catholic learning apologetics on the fly while discovering Catholicism for yourself…it can be exhausting. I didn’t say I was Catholic until I was certain that I was committed to the swim, however long it takes.
Here, I am at rest, and interested and engaged because of the wealth of fellowship and information, and drawn to it, not interested just in order to defend, or question others about their faith and argue the number of angels on the head of a pin. It’s a relief. It’s time for me to withdraw somewhat, but I’m not sure I will ever be able to walk away from it completely. It definitely keeps you in the game, and the value to others is what you let Jesus do when you say yes and get out of the way. You get called on anything, like instant karma.
I would not suggest all sites…there are many that are just. not. good, and it’s not hard to spot them.
Blessings!
just discovered I dredged this ancient thread up from way back. Oh well, maybe someone needed it.