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Metaron
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Wow, thanks alot for the insight, Rob’s Wife… I go back to work tomorrow morning at eight. According to my contract, I have to give notice of work termination 30 days beforehand. Pray, ok? Maybe it’s time for me to find a new job.Okay sweetie. I get it. Your a quiet kid whose a bit lonely and shy and this guy started out as a nice fellow who made you feel like a good person with a good friend? Got it.
He lied to you.
That’s not who he is and you are not listening to your gut, which is screaming at you, imho. There’s a wonderful book out there by Gavin de Becker called the Gift of Fear
amazon.com/Fear-Survival-Signals-Protect-Violence/dp/B00007MF53/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1196655008&sr=1-1
***It’s available at most libraries.***
Set aside the whole issue of animal cruelty and at the very least you have a man who has zero regard for the feelings and property of other people. And he uses his supposed authority as a boss to intimidate and make “friends”. (If he was your boss first (?) he should have never become so “friendly”.) He thinks he is right and knows better and they deserve it for not agreeing with him. How dare you, a sensitive nothing he doesn’t need, question him?! Yeah, I bet he gets ticked off alright.
He’s not the god he thinks he is and you can not only do better, it’s become dangerous for you to not do better.
If I were you, or you were my kid at college, I’d tell you to pack up tonight and come home. He can mail the last paycheck to the school for you to pick up there. I’d call the police and tell them what this man is doing and what he’s said to you. No, they may not be able to do more than some extra patrols and such, but well… just in case, I’d want a record of this guy somewhere.
Do not confront this guy and sure as heck don’t be alone with him anymore.
Do you have family to call?
Seriously dear, you’re freaking me out all the way over here.