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rose.gold
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Ughhhhh. Confusion about sin is the worst. Okay so every once in awhile I go through a period of not understanding impurity. Then I finally understand. Then I get confused again. It sucks. I really hate not knowing if I’m in the state of mortal sin.
Whenever I see my boyfriend, we never act impurely. I believe hugs and short kisses and other ways to show affection are pure. Affection isn’t a bad thing. But sometimes my body reacts to pure affection as if it’s something sexual which is very frustrating. I don’t want to feel that way and I don’t know why I do. The feeling is pretty easy to just ignore. It doesn’t make me think about or want to have sex. It’s just a feeling I get sometimes. But I feel awful about it still because I know we’re supposed to avoid things that arouse us. So what am I supposed to do? Just never see my boyfriend? Ahhh I just don’t know what to do. And I don’t think I’m in the state of mortal sin but I don’t know for sure. I wanna go to Communion tomorrow so I’m asking for help and opinions. Is it always mortally sinful to do something that arouses you? Even if it’s something that shouldn’t arouse you? Even if you just ignore the feeling?
Thank you for your replies. They’re much appreciated. God bless you all.
Edit: There’s also this article written by a priest. In it, he says that if unintended arousal occurs, then there’s still no sin (as long as it’s just affection, and not anything sexual) Is a Warm Chaste Courtship Possible? – Catholic Faith Alive!, Inc.
However, I’m sure some people have different opinions on this matter. How do I know if I’m sinning or not if different people tell me different things?
Whenever I see my boyfriend, we never act impurely. I believe hugs and short kisses and other ways to show affection are pure. Affection isn’t a bad thing. But sometimes my body reacts to pure affection as if it’s something sexual which is very frustrating. I don’t want to feel that way and I don’t know why I do. The feeling is pretty easy to just ignore. It doesn’t make me think about or want to have sex. It’s just a feeling I get sometimes. But I feel awful about it still because I know we’re supposed to avoid things that arouse us. So what am I supposed to do? Just never see my boyfriend? Ahhh I just don’t know what to do. And I don’t think I’m in the state of mortal sin but I don’t know for sure. I wanna go to Communion tomorrow so I’m asking for help and opinions. Is it always mortally sinful to do something that arouses you? Even if it’s something that shouldn’t arouse you? Even if you just ignore the feeling?
Thank you for your replies. They’re much appreciated. God bless you all.
Edit: There’s also this article written by a priest. In it, he says that if unintended arousal occurs, then there’s still no sin (as long as it’s just affection, and not anything sexual) Is a Warm Chaste Courtship Possible? – Catholic Faith Alive!, Inc.
However, I’m sure some people have different opinions on this matter. How do I know if I’m sinning or not if different people tell me different things?
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