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faithandhope
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II too recently learned of my husband’s infidelty. I can understand the desire not to know. As I’m going through this pain as we speak. It’s a very difficult and devasting thing to go through. I’m also asking the same questions to my husband and not really getting any understanding of what’s happened to our marriage. And I don’t know what kind of recovering he’s going through.The choice still stands. I know people who have chosen seperation after their husband cheated on them and I will never jugde them for it.
As for your desire to not know the truth about your husbands fidelity or lack thereoff, I think you are one of very few.
I know that in my mind one of the foundations of marriage is total honesty and transparency.
Anyway… I think this is off topic…
But the truth is that I don’t think I will ever be whole again. And I pray and hope that you survive this. There’s a long road ahead for you and me and other’s that are going through this.
In Christ we trust. Praying for you and your husband.