Are depression and anxiety becoming more common?

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It seems these are becoming a lot more common, does anyone have any reasons why it might be increasing? I myself have both, some days are better than others but recently it’s been very bad.
 
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I think “FOMO” and comparing our own lives to the manufactured lives of others is very much increasing anxiety. We compare ourselves to Insta feeds and Live Tweets.

We are also becoming so isolated, people don’t sit on the front steps and talk to their neighbors anymore, we rush inside as if we are in witness protection.
 
First off, I think in the past it was not treated unless someone was suicidal, and there was a huge taboo surrounding suicide. I remember people from my childhood being described as “bluesy” and things of that nature. In retrospect, they were almost certainly depressed.

Yes, I think high school students feel an extraordinary pressure to succeed, to become “extraordinary.” They certainly feel (and not without reason) that just being willing to put in a hard day’s work isn’t always sufficient to hope to support a family. That was definitely a feature in the distant past, but I don’t think there was the idea that there was much that could be done about what economic class you were going to be in. Parents, meanwhile, don’t have this secure situation where you start at a job when you’re young and do that your whole life and fit in with a secure social and work group for your entire working life. That just doesn’t exist any more, not from Wall Street down to the coal miners or those in day labor. Everyone knows their position or even their entire industry could take a fatal downturn any day.

The good side is that the nature of anxiety and depression are more well-understood. There are habits and skills that a person prone to these problems can learn to use. It doesn’t make the world more secure, but it makes one a bit more capable of getting back to a trusting attitude that can focus on the eternal perspective with clarity instead of fear. (And isn’t that the most common command of the Bible? “Fear not!” So to master fears and anxiety and pessimism is a spiritually-beneficial thing to do.)
I think “FOMO” and comparing our own lives to the manufactured lives of others is very much increasing anxiety. We compare ourselves to Insta feeds and Live Tweets.

We are also becoming so isolated, people don’t sit on the front steps and talk to their neighbors anymore, we rush inside as if we are in witness protection.
Yes, there is definitely an atmosphere of competition and a foolish attitude that being average or contented with a life that has boundaries is somehow pathetic. I think it is advertising’s stirring up of the desire to make other people jealous, just more efficient than decades ago. Advertising does use fear and insecurity and, well, avarice to increase sales. Humility and modesty are not popular virtues.

Yes, glamour is in high demand, and we know Who is the world’s great pusher of Glamour (and all its empty promises).
 
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They certainly feel (and not without reason) that just being willing to put in a hard day’s work isn’t always sufficient to hope to support a family.
Especially when the societal definition of “support” means big house, nice cars, good clothes, the right schools, the right groups, and all of that. When the message is a modest home, modest belongings, and such are the definition of failure.
 
Homeownership of a modest home is beyond the dreams of many Americans.
 
I don’t necessarily believe its becoming more common, I think it’s just becoming less stigmatizing to talk about it.
 
It seems these are becoming a lot more common, does anyone have any reasons why it might be increasing? I myself have both, some days are better than others but recently it’s been very bad.
Yes. Technology was supposed to make our lives easier by automating much of our work, so that we would have to work less and have the same productivity. Instead the opposite has happened. Technology allows us to do more work, so the marketplace has raised the temperature. You must do more work precisely because you have technology. Go to any government office. Ask them what their workload has been like since the 1990s when tech really started taking off, and if they have enough people to meet their needs.

What’s worse is that all the overworking and information overload makes us less reflective. No one can stop and think because they’re too busy keeping up with the Joneses. The four last things are the last thing on anyone’s mind.
 
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