"Are you okay?" (Why do we use this question?)

[Christphr]

I understand this question to mean “Do you have any problems?” I don’t remember the older generations (grandparents…) using this kind of question as a regular sort of conversation starter.

Why does our culture so often lead with the question "Are you okay?"
People have more problems now than in the past?
People really and usually are concerned about the other person?
People are insecure and want to be asked the same question back?
People have less shared things to talk about?
People seek drama and like to know other’s struggles?

 

[UpUpAndAway]

What would you say instead?

 

[Tis_Bearself]

if I know somebody just suffered a big tragedy or life crisis, or if they are my friend or relative and they seem upset, why would I NOT ask them if they were okay?

Would you just ignore the person in the above situations?

I don’t think I or anyone else goes into the office and walks around every morning asking all our workmates, “Hey are you okay?” We just ask when it seems like someone might possibly not be okay, because we want to help them if they need help.