Hello.
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I saw this interesting thread, “Scientists on Religion”. It was made so that people could post quotes about the topic and comment on them. Now, I was thinking of creating one about artists´ opinions (be them plastic artists, novelists, poets, storytellers, screenwriters or musicians).
I just ask you one thing: post about serious artists, such as, say, Helman Melville or El Greco. Don´t post what, say, Justin Bieber or Shakira think (sorry, Justin, Shakira).
Here´s the link of the scientists thread:
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=1000250
I wonder if this thread will be successful. That said, thank you very much.
Peace and good. Blessings.
P.D.: Pray for Peru (specially for Piura, which is flooded).
So my girlfriend, of wherest we met on
catholicmatch.com and had been dating since January this year, just broke up with me. She said I have to leave my performance music out of my life if I really want her. She quotes Beyonce “All the Single Ladies” because it says “Do not treat me to these things of the world.” I don’t lead a wild and crazy lifestyle, I just practice some motown/funk cover songs and play saxophone in a band at 2 local bars, but I was more involved in music before we met, and committed to her and even told her several times that several of the musicians I play with are married themselves, not as Catholics, but to themselves they see themselves as married, even though a Catholic marriage is the only valid marriage according to the church.
I go to church every Sunday and sing in choir, but I don’t see singing in choir as performance time, but as prayer time.
I see her point that the people I play music with are leading lifestyles where there is marijuana smoke and drinks, these devil’s highs, rather than God’s highs, but is a song like “I’d rather go Blind” by Etta James, and other songs that encourage dancing really all that bad?
so I am just out there using the skill of playing an instrument I learned all through my younger days, just making use of it, to play music, and often communicate to the other musicians that I am there to play the music but do not want to stay at all night parties, or big music festivals out in the desert, or do any of the drugs.
So am I a true catholic, or is this a double life? Can a true catholic still play performance music in the likes of Motown? (James Brown, Gladys Knight, Tina and Ike, etc.).
True that pride is a cardinal sin and so maybe the lyrics to Proud Mary if it is attributed to our Blessed Mother would be that big a sin, but nowhere in the song does it say it is about our Blessed Mary, so it really could be the name of someone else, or even of a Ferry, as I believe it actually is named for.
Sometimes timing recent changes comes to mind…In 2004 I had a saxophone and was more interested in finding a woman to settle down with than to play it.
Time went by and I never found a woman to settle down with.
Around 2007/2008, still with no girlfriend, feeling extremely alone I let music come back into my life by singing karaoke at a local bar, but didn’t want it to lead me to bad places, so being I also was coming back home to the church after a long departure and just gone to RCIA (as a Candidate, not Catechumen, since I was already baptised and had First Communion when I was younger) and aimed at a balanced life where I wasn’t just so alone but going to church seeing all these happy families whereas I was just this single guy in his 30s who didn’t really fit in, I sang karaoke to make friends I may have more in common with. I also went to watch football at the local Sports Bar. So I also mentined to my local Parish that I was there and if it was a bad thing, but was invited to sing in the choir, so I accepted. I have been singing in the choir ever since then.
But the bar wasn’t the answer, because even though fun at times, I never saw the people I knew at the karaoke/sports bar outside of the bar but maybe 2 or 3 times in several years. They seemed more into the drinking, and I saw myself as a church goer who just was looking for some friends to fit in with.
Then I saw these instruments, a bass guitar and an alto saxophone, sitting there, that I hadn’t touched in a very long time, and during this time, without me even eluding to wanting one, one of my brothers buys me an acoustic guitar for Christmas. So I thought I could fit in with musicians, and so wow, I started to meet al kinds of people just through going to Open Mic nights and following some of tha bands around.
Still going to church during all of this has been my stronghold from participating in any drugs or excessive drinking or just doing anything sinful. Just playing music with them, is that really all that bad?
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