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I am a white southern english speaking single mother. Okay, with that said, I would love to attend the Spanish Mass. For one, I do know a tad of Spanish … studied it 2 years in high school 2 years in college. Since then I’ve had an attraction to the language and wished I could speak it more fluently. Even when I was in a non-denomination church, I was attracted to the Hispanic ministry. I tried to help, by picking up the ones who had no transportation in the van on Sundays and attending the spanish services to help in any way that I could. We also had “life-groups” outside of church which I attended to try to develop friendships with the people.

Also, I think attending Mass in a foreign language would just be a good spiritual experience. I’ve always wanted to attend a Latin Mass, but I don’t know of one in this area.

Anyway, I just hesitate, because I am sure there are only Spanish-speaking people there, and I would feel like they maybe would think I had alterior motives for attending. My children are dark skinned with dark hair…I’m a single mom…get the picture?

Is it an unheard of practice for people to attend mass of another culture?
 
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I am a white southern english speaking single mother. Okay, with that said, I would love to attend the Spanish Mass. For one, I do know a tad of Spanish … studied it 2 years in high school 2 years in college. Since then I’ve had an attraction to the language and wished I could speak it more fluently. Even when I was in a non-denomination church, I was attracted to the Hispanic ministry. I tried to help, by picking up the ones who had no transportation in the van on Sundays and attending the spanish services to help in any way that I could. We also had “life-groups” outside of church which I attended to try to develop friendships with the people.

Also, I think attending Mass in a foreign language would just be a good spiritual experience. I’ve always wanted to attend a Latin Mass, but I don’t know of one in this area.

Anyway, I just hesitate, because I am sure there are only Spanish-speaking people there, and I would feel like they maybe would think I had alterior motives for attending. My children are dark skinned with dark hair…I’m a single mom…get the picture?

Is it an unheard of practice for people to attend mass of another culture?
Huh? We’re CATHOLIC! We can attend any Catholic Mass we want to attend. Go for it! But I’m from New York. I frequently attend the Spanish Mass at noon at a church in East Harlem. No sweat.

(Aaaahhh!!! you go to HARLEM all by yourself!!! Aren’t you afraid you’re gonna get mugged??? – even the Hispanic priest at that church teases me by saying’ “What’s a classy white girl like you doing in this neighborhood?”)
 
Nothing wrong at all. By all means, feel free to attend a Spanish Mass. I have, and always feel very welcome. It’s an experience you won’t soon forget.

From my experience, it’s much more chaotic than an Anglo Mass, but I can’t help but notice there are far fewer communicants. It seems that they don’t receive the Precious Body of Christ unless they’ve been to confession recently. How that contrasts to our Mass, where there are long lines and everyone receives combined with non-existent lines for confession.
 
I have the honor of assisting at a Mass in Spanish once a month. I am not fluent in Spanish and have an interpreter help me, when I preach the homily. The people are so faith-filled and the songs are beautiful. I found that after only a few Masses you can begin to pick up some of the songs and the answers to the parts of the Mass. They sing the same responses each week. If you have a missalette in Spanish, it is easy to follow along. Our missalettes have the Spanish for each Sunday in a special section. You can cut out the English from the English section and have the translation. A “Spanish for Dummies” book is also helpful. I guarentee you will find it a rich experience.

Deacon Tony
 
That is the beauty of the Catholic Church/Mass. It is universal. You can go anywhere in the world and be able to follow along, even if you don’t know the language.
 
It’s the 15th anniversary of the spanish mass at my parrish, and a welcome invitation was made to all. I’m gonna be in attendance, I look forward to it.
 
You will be welcomed to attend. We have one anglo family that attends frequently, their son is one of the alter boys. Honestly there is an adjustment period, but once you are over that you blend in with the rest of the congregation. It also helps as a stepping stone in accomplishing joint projects like the recent visit by the Bishop of Monterey, things were shared by both cultures, we sat and ate as one church as it is supposed to be.
 
I amAnyway, I just hesitate, because I am sure there are only Spanish-speaking people there, and I would feel like they maybe would think I had alterior motives for attending. My children are dark skinned with dark hair…I’m a single mom…get the picture?

Is it an unheard of practice for people to attend mass of another culture?
nobody cares, nobody is keeping track, and nobody is speculating about who does and does not attend this Mass or that. It will be an excellent way to learn more Spanish, since you are already familiar with the works, esp if your parish has a missalette that is bilingual. if they don’t see if you can pick one up someplace to help you follow along. It won’t take long to learn the basic responses and prayers even I can do it. In our Parish there is one Spanish Mass on the weekend, and holy days are bilingual. In most parishes here, however, there is one English Mass on the weekend, the rest are Spanish, so you would have a lot of times to choose from.

another excellent way to practice the language is to get bilingual children’s RE books, see if any parish near you has used ones you can get cheaply.
 
Being both Puerto Rican and in pastoral care, I can assure you of several things regarding celebrating the Eucharist with our Hispanic brothers and sisters.

First, I believe that like any other Catholic community, no one keeps track of your ethnic background or race. Most people probably will not notice that you’re “different.”

Second, we have to get past the race divide. Hispanics are a language group, not a racial group. There are blond Germanic Hispanics too. Take a trip to Chile, Argentina, Uruguay and you will find that most of the population is Caucasian, very few Mestizos (Mixed Racial Heritage). If you’re blond with blue eyes, you can feel comfortable in a Spanish language mass, as well as any other language.

Third, get ready for a very “matriarchal” experience, as Hispanics are very close to Jews in their views regarding the faith. The mother is the keeper and bearer of the faith in the Hispanic family. Therefore, the women at liturgy outnumber the men. The majority of males at a Hispanic liturgy are at the two ends of the age spectrum, seniors and younger men. Middle-age men rarely attend liturgy. It is not for a lack of faith, but because of strong Jewish influence in Spain for more than 800 years of Jewish and Muslim history. We often forget that Spain is a fairly young nation, compared to other European nations. The Muslims governed it for eight centuries up to the late 1400s. Their religious customs and those of the Jews are still very much alive in Spanish culture.

Fourth, if you like the Latin language liturgy, the Romance languages are the closest you’re going to get, unless you celebrate a liturgy in the Latin language.

Fifth, the Hispanic community has a very relaxed attitude toward community. It’s not that they lack reverence, but that family, community and informality are very much a part of the Latin world. To the typical Anglo-American, the environment will appear chaotic, noisy and almost rowdy at times. This stems from a strong sense of community. People tend to feel that they do not have to “behave” while in community. They can relax and do whatever it is, without stress.

Sixth, Hispanic preachers tend to be very passionate and sometimes jocular preachers. This is very much a part of the culture. Sometimes, they can be very mystical too. Again, mysticism is very much a part of the Spanish heritage. Spain has given birth to some of the Church’s greatest mystics from whom many priests and deacons have learned to preach. The typical Anglo-American preacher is frequently of German or Irish Catholic extraction. If you have ever celebrated liturgy in an Italian parish, you will find the same passionate discourse. Again, that’s the Latin flavour coming through.

Finally, the communion lines are shorter. Hispanics are very conservative about receiving communion without confession. Also, there is an interesting situation among Hispanics in the USA. While the rate of divorce among Hispanic Americans is higher than Hispanic Latin Americans (Brazilians are not Hispanics and Spaniards are not Latin Americans), divorced and remarried Hispanics usually continue to celebrate the liturgy. They don’t seem to hold it against the Church that they can’t receive communion, because they are remarried. That’s kind of strange, because it’s common among North Americans to fall away in these cases.

A piece of advice, whatever you do, if someone asks you where you’re from, remember you’re North American or from the United States. Latin Americans are offended when people of the United States identify themselves exclusively as Americans. They have very strong ties to America as a continent and hemisphere. And they often feel that the people of the United States ignore their contribution to the Church and the hemisphere. This would only come up if you’re in casual conversation with South Americans after church or some such situation.

Please excuse my own poor expression in English, as I have only spoken it for about five years. Although, we did study it in school all of our lives.

Good luck and enjoy the experience. God bless!
 
I don’t see why you couldn’t attend! We’re all Catholic!!! If I had the opportunity to attend a German Mass I would jump at the opportunity! See if you can get a missalette to follow along.
 
Being both Puerto Rican and in pastoral care, I can assure you of several things regarding celebrating the Eucharist with our Hispanic brothers and sisters.

First, I believe that like any other Catholic community, no one keeps track of your ethnic background or race. Most people probably will not notice that you’re “different.”

Second, we have to get past the race divide. Hispanics are a language group, not a racial group. There are blond Germanic Hispanics too. Take a trip to Chile, Argentina, Uruguay and you will find that most of the population is Caucasian, very few Mestizos (Mixed Racial Heritage). If you’re blond with blue eyes, you can feel comfortable in a Spanish language mass, as well as any other language.

Third, get ready for a very “matriarchal” experience, as Hispanics are very close to Jews in their views regarding the faith. The mother is the keeper and bearer of the faith in the Hispanic family. Therefore, the women at liturgy outnumber the men. The majority of males at a Hispanic liturgy are at the two ends of the age spectrum, seniors and younger men. Middle-age men rarely attend liturgy. It is not for a lack of faith, but because of strong Jewish influence in Spain for more than 800 years of Jewish and Muslim history. We often forget that Spain is a fairly young nation, compared to other European nations. The Muslims governed it for eight centuries up to the late 1400s. Their religious customs and those of the Jews are still very much alive in Spanish culture.

Fourth, if you like the Latin language liturgy, the Romance languages are the closest you’re going to get, unless you celebrate a liturgy in the Latin language.

Fifth, the Hispanic community has a very relaxed attitude toward community. It’s not that they lack reverence, but that family, community and informality are very much a part of the Latin world. To the typical Anglo-American, the environment will appear chaotic, noisy and almost rowdy at times. This stems from a strong sense of community. People tend to feel that they do not have to “behave” while in community. They can relax and do whatever it is, without stress.

Sixth, Hispanic preachers tend to be very passionate and sometimes jocular preachers. This is very much a part of the culture. Sometimes, they can be very mystical too. Again, mysticism is very much a part of the Spanish heritage. Spain has given birth to some of the Church’s greatest mystics from whom many priests and deacons have learned to preach. The typical Anglo-American preacher is frequently of German or Irish Catholic extraction. If you have ever celebrated liturgy in an Italian parish, you will find the same passionate discourse. Again, that’s the Latin flavour coming through.

Finally, the communion lines are shorter. Hispanics are very conservative about receiving communion without confession. Also, there is an interesting situation among Hispanics in the USA. While the rate of divorce among Hispanic Americans is higher than Hispanic Latin Americans (Brazilians are not Hispanics and Spaniards are not Latin Americans), divorced and remarried Hispanics usually continue to celebrate the liturgy. They don’t seem to hold it against the Church that they can’t receive communion, because they are remarried. That’s kind of strange, because it’s common among North Americans to fall away in these cases.

A piece of advice, whatever you do, if someone asks you where you’re from, remember you’re North American or from the United States. Latin Americans are offended when people of the United States identify themselves exclusively as Americans. They have very strong ties to America as a continent and hemisphere. And they often feel that the people of the United States ignore their contribution to the Church and the hemisphere. This would only come up if you’re in casual conversation with South Americans after church or some such situation.

Please excuse my own poor expression in English, as I have only spoken it for about five years. Although, we did study it in school all of our lives.

Good luck and enjoy the experience. God bless!
Wow! If you think you have poor expression in English, you must be a perfectionist! This is very well-thought out and clear.

I have attended Masses in Spanish in Ecuador, Mexico, and the United States, and no one commented on my ethnicity (I am born and raised in the United States of European descent). The advice you have given the OP is excellent. These are the same observations I have made from “my side” of the coin. I just have not been able to express them as well as you have.
 
Go for it! You will be amazed at how much of the Mass you understand in another language. It will be a good expirence for your children.
 
I am a white southern english speaking single mother. Okay, with that said, I would love to attend the Spanish Mass. For one, I do know a tad of Spanish … studied it 2 years in high school 2 years in college. Since then I’ve had an attraction to the language and wished I could speak it more fluently. Even when I was in a non-denomination church, I was attracted to the Hispanic ministry. I tried to help, by picking up the ones who had no transportation in the van on Sundays and attending the spanish services to help in any way that I could. We also had “life-groups” outside of church which I attended to try to develop friendships with the people.

Also, I think attending Mass in a foreign language would just be a good spiritual experience. I’ve always wanted to attend a Latin Mass, but I don’t know of one in this area.

Anyway, I just hesitate, because I am sure there are only Spanish-speaking people there, and I would feel like they maybe would think I had alterior motives for attending. My children are dark skinned with dark hair…I’m a single mom…get the picture?

Is it an unheard of practice for people to attend mass of another culture?
Yes go! My cousin and I went to Spanish mass one time and we enjoyed it. In the missals, they had the readings in Spanish and in English so you can follow along. We went around Christmastime, so we knew the songs they were singing. I’m taking Spanish right now and learned some stuff. I’m tan with dark hair, and one of the Hispanic sisters came up to me and started speaking Spanish. I smile politely and say “Yo no hablo Espanol.” then she switched to English.

-Jeanne
 
I have attended Mass, celebrated in the Spanish language several times in my life. It is a beautiful experience! By all means… GO! And do not worry about people thinking you have ulterior motives.

As the others have stated… we are all Catholics! God bless you!
 
Being both Puerto Rican and in pastoral care, I can assure you of several things regarding celebrating the Eucharist with our Hispanic brothers and sisters.

First, I believe that like any other Catholic community, no one keeps track of your ethnic background or race. Most people probably will not notice that you’re “different.”

Second, we have to get past the race divide. Hispanics are a language group, not a racial group. There are blond Germanic Hispanics too. Take a trip to Chile, Argentina, Uruguay and you will find that most of the population is Caucasian, very few Mestizos (Mixed Racial Heritage). If you’re blond with blue eyes, you can feel comfortable in a Spanish language mass, as well as any other language.

Third, get ready for a very “matriarchal” experience, as Hispanics are very close to Jews in their views regarding the faith. The mother is the keeper and bearer of the faith in the Hispanic family. Therefore, the women at liturgy outnumber the men. The majority of males at a Hispanic liturgy are at the two ends of the age spectrum, seniors and younger men. Middle-age men rarely attend liturgy. It is not for a lack of faith, but because of strong Jewish influence in Spain for more than 800 years of Jewish and Muslim history. We often forget that Spain is a fairly young nation, compared to other European nations. The Muslims governed it for eight centuries up to the late 1400s. Their religious customs and those of the Jews are still very much alive in Spanish culture.

Fourth, if you like the Latin language liturgy, the Romance languages are the closest you’re going to get, unless you celebrate a liturgy in the Latin language.

Fifth, the Hispanic community has a very relaxed attitude toward community. It’s not that they lack reverence, but that family, community and informality are very much a part of the Latin world. To the typical Anglo-American, the environment will appear chaotic, noisy and almost rowdy at times. This stems from a strong sense of community. People tend to feel that they do not have to “behave” while in community. They can relax and do whatever it is, without stress.

Sixth, Hispanic preachers tend to be very passionate and sometimes jocular preachers. This is very much a part of the culture. Sometimes, they can be very mystical too. Again, mysticism is very much a part of the Spanish heritage. Spain has given birth to some of the Church’s greatest mystics from whom many priests and deacons have learned to preach. The typical Anglo-American preacher is frequently of German or Irish Catholic extraction. If you have ever celebrated liturgy in an Italian parish, you will find the same passionate discourse. Again, that’s the Latin flavour coming through.

Finally, the communion lines are shorter. Hispanics are very conservative about receiving communion without confession. Also, there is an interesting situation among Hispanics in the USA. While the rate of divorce among Hispanic Americans is higher than Hispanic Latin Americans (Brazilians are not Hispanics and Spaniards are not Latin Americans), divorced and remarried Hispanics usually continue to celebrate the liturgy. They don’t seem to hold it against the Church that they can’t receive communion, because they are remarried. That’s kind of strange, because it’s common among North Americans to fall away in these cases.

A piece of advice, whatever you do, if someone asks you where you’re from, remember you’re North American or from the United States. Latin Americans are offended when people of the United States identify themselves exclusively as Americans. They have very strong ties to America as a continent and hemisphere. And they often feel that the people of the United States ignore their contribution to the Church and the hemisphere. This would only come up if you’re in casual conversation with South Americans after church or some such situation.

Please excuse my own poor expression in English, as I have only spoken it for about five years. Although, we did study it in school all of our lives.

Good luck and enjoy the experience. God bless!
Excellent post. I would add that there is more emphasis on Mary in Latino churches too.
 
Hey Seeking 33,
The coolest thing about attending Mass all over the world, in any language, is that it is the same in any Catholic church you attend!!!
We’re all God’s children, part of the mystical Body of Christ. You and your kids will be welcome anywhere you go to Mass. You may not be able to speak with the parishioners very well…but please, never feel like you are not totally welcome in a Catholic sanctuary and parish family!
When I travel, and attend the Mass in different parts of the world…I don’t know the parishioners, but I know exactly what is going on and what is being said at any given moment during the Mass, because it is done the SAME WAY everywhere.
That’s the neat thing about being part of a universal church, too. All Catholic Masses are said and done in the same way/order all around the globe.

Please don’t feel like you cannot attend any Catholic Mass that you want to. You are a sister in Christ to everyone in the building and you may feel welcome and at home there.
Trust in God, put everything in His hands and feel at ease. He adores it when His children come to visit Him and spend time in His holy place.

God bless you and your beautiful children!
 
Not always true. Sometimes they frown on you if you don’t make responses in their language. But I haven’t found this to be true in the Spanish Masses which I’ve attended, though I wish they followed the actual texts more. It can be confusing when there are so many options offered.
 
A good friend asked me to come to Spanish Mass. We have bilingual missals, but the few times I went, I felt frustrated because I had very little idea of what was being said in the homily.
I know some Spanish, but not enough to follow a homily.

I guess I’ll just have to buckle down and learn some more Spanish!🙂
 
Trust me, A lot of them speak english, maybe not so good, but they do understand it more the speaking it. So, yeah by all means go for it.

May the Holy Spirit continue to guide you.

jesus g
 
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