Back From Buffalo Carmel, About My Visit At The Monastery.

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I returned about a week ago, and posted this on another forum, but I thought I would post it on here for those that might be interested. For those that don’t know, I have been discerning a religious vocation for about 2 years now and I was just Confirmed a few months ago. This was my first visit to a Monastery. I’m trusting always that everything will happen according to His will. If there’s any questions anyone may have, i’ll try to answer them! 🙂

Praised be Jesus Christ!

I had such a beautiful time at the Monastery. I got there Thursday afternoon. As soon as I arrived, Sister (Extern Sister), showed me where I would be staying, then they gave me a meal.

I believe it was one of the Sister’s family members that was visiting at the Monastery this weekend, so they had me stay in the Priest Suite, which is right next to the Chapel. Sister showed me a little “secret” passage way that they (Externs) go through to get the the Chapel. Just a few steps away and there it was! It was a blessing to have been able to stay in the Priest Suite because I was able to spend so much time with Our Lord in the Chapel, if I stayed in the guest house, I would have had limited access. The Chapel is beautiful, it reminds me a lot of a Cathedral style Church, though not as big, and with all the art work it looks like a Church you would find in the Vatican. They had Benediction two times while I was there, and Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament almost all day on Friday. What a joy it was to go and spend all of that time with Jesus! Praise The Lord, O my soul!

That night I met with Mother for the first time, I must say I was nervous and kept thinking about what I was going to say. We had a very nice chat for a couple of hours. She had said to me after we had talked that she didn’t really have anymore questions to ask me, she says I have this Vocation. She made the comment “Are you ready to enter now? It seems like you are.” Though I have been recently Confirmed, I know sometimes there is a waiting period. She says she is going to ask the Bishop about this. If the Lord wills that I return, then I know He has a time when that will be.

They gave me their scheduel, which was nice because I was able to go to the Chapel and hear them singing and pray with them. They gave me a copy of The Liturgy of the Hours both in English and Latin. I must say I followed along in the English book, it will take much practice for me to figure it out in Latin and how to use that book, Mother said she didn’t want me to get discouraged. I did though look through the Latin and caught up with them a couple of times… then I got lost again.

The Mass there is beautiful! There was never a large crowd at Mass, the atmosphere was private and intimate. The Sisters sound beautiful when they sang Gregorian Chant.

Mother had me watch a movie, one of the Extern Sisters stayed with me. For this, we went into the guest house. The movie is called “The Star of Bethlehem.” This movie is extremely interesting! It is, of course, about the Star of Bethlehem. I recommend watching it. Here is the website if you want to find out more: bethlehemstar.net/

Mother also gave me a book called “The Gift of Oneself”, and I purchased in the little shop they have there some prayer cards and a book called “Divine Intimacy.” The Sister’s use this book everyday for a meditation. They have a meditation in this book for everyday of the year. I recommend both of these.

They have a Secular Order of Discalced Carmelites that go to the Monastery and also give a lot of helping hands to the Sisters. They are such a kind group of people, hearts filled with love, and are striving for holiness. I got to spend the afternoon with them and attended their Mass and had lunch with them. I got to be in a discussion group with them about Saint John of the Cross and his writings. They had great insights and I could tell they very much study his writings. It was great that I was able to meet them.

Mother had me clean the Chapel and I got to do some garden work with Sister in the Extern garden. My first time doing garden work. I felt like a postulant for a few hours!

I got to meet all the Sisters, but one. They have 16 at the moment, including the two Externs. They have a Postulant that is going to be receive the Habit and her new name on the Feast day of Corpus Christi! She is Sister Deberah at the moment.

They have public Novenas there also in the Chapel. Sometime this year they are going to have one to The Little Flower. I was told of the story about the priest’s that are going to attend. They are twin brothers. When they were in the womb there was some difficulties, their mother was told that she should abort one of them (i’m not sure what the medical issue was.) The mother went to the Monastery and told the Sisters and was told to consecrate them to the Sacred Heart. She went into the Chapel and did so. Now, both of them are Ordained, and… **they were both Ordained on the Feast day of the Sacred Heart! **Praise the Lord! I thought that was such a beautiful story and I wanted to share that with you all.

Mother gave me an application. I do plan on sending it back. If the Lord wills that I enter, then I will return there. I would like to discern further with them, and find out if this is where Jesus is calling me. May all my desires and actions be according to His will. Amen.
 
ForeverHis8827, thanks for sharing your story. I’d like to encourage vocations to the monastery, and if somebody asks how they would go about arranging a visit with a monastery like the one you had, what should I tell them?
 
It sounds like a wonderful visit and monestary! 🙂 May God guide you! 😉
 
I’m glad that your visit was such a lovely one: it sounds as if you got a lot out of it, both spiritually and emotionally. If it’s God’s will that you enter their Carmel, I hope you will always be as happy there!
 
Thank you for sharing 🙂 I am in the process of discerning my vocation and I feel an attraction to the Carmelites.
 
Thank you all so kindly for your thoughts and prayers. 🙂

Prayers for you all, and may God Bless!
 
ForeverHis8827, thanks for sharing your story. I’d like to encourage vocations to the monastery, and if somebody asks how they would go about arranging a visit with a monastery like the one you had, what should I tell them?
Your very welcome. That’s so beautiful that you are encouraging visits! I would also recommed visits, even if one doesn’t think they have a religious vocation, it’s a beautiful way to spend so much intimate time with Our Lord and to let Him speak to your heart. A lot had happend within me while I was there, it was a beautiful experience. I find that desires that were in me are now burning even more since I left the Monastery. I had in mind what to expect when I went, but I knew that everything was in His Hands and we don’t know what’s going to happen, but we need to always trust in Him.

About the visits, I would say to write or call the Superior firstly. I first contacted through letter, and remained in contact with her for many months. In my first letter I talked a little about myself and my interests in the Monastery and that I would be interested to know more about it and possibly go for a visit. I waited until I was Confirmed, then I went for a visit. That’s why I waited many months to go.

You can also call the Superior, sometimes it can take a long time to hear back when you contact a Monastery. They are busy and they keep a schedule. I know also that certain times of the year they have very limited contact with people outside of the enclosure. At this Monastery they don’t have any contact with anyone during Lent. Patience is needed when waiting to hear back from them.

I would also recommend making a list of questions you may have if your going to call. I remember being so nervous the first time I called! The second time I did have a list. 🙂

They will also ask you questions, and they are always more than happy to tell you about the way of life at the Monastery. Most likely, they offer you to come for a visit. I know after my first letter, and when I was contacted back, Mother offered to schedule a visit.

God bless you, and my prayers are with you as you encourage this vocation!
 
What a wonderful account of your visit!

I’ve been to this Carmel myself, but only once: in March 1998 with two other people, one of whom was a member, like myself at the time, in the Secular Discalced Carmelites. *

I have a book about the history of the community which was written for the 75th anniversary of their foundation [1920-1995]. I’m still on their mailing list for their public Novenas.

They made a foundation in the mid-1990s in Alexandria, South Dakota. The Bishop at the time was Robert Carlson, now the new Archbishop of St. Louis. The monastery is in the parish formerly pastored by Fr. Robert J. Fox, the founder of the Fatima Family Apostolate. He retired in 2004 and moved to Alabama, where he lives near Mother Angelica’s Shrine of the Blessed Sacrament.

The Buffalo Carmel made two earlier foundations, one of which I was intimately acquainted. Between the ages of 15 and 24 I wrote and visited the Carmel in Schenectady, NY, with the thought of entering there. It didn’t happen for me. But I still keep in touch with them.

In 2005, the nuns made the painful decision to move from Schenectady and merge with the Carmel of Pittsford, NY, which is a suburb of Rochester. The inner-ctiy setting in Schenectady was too noisy and not conducive to the silence and solitude of the cloistered life. The community in Pittsford was down to three elderly nuns, and their monastery was put up for sale. When the Schenectady nuns came, they were able to get it back. I’ve been there a few times since they moved-the surroundings are much nicer. The road out front is a little busier-and they face a golf course!

What a neat story about the ‘twin priests’! I’m a twin myself…:o ! Will they be there on Friday, the Feast of the Sacred Heart and the beginning of ‘The Year of the Priests’? How cool that will be!*
 
Thank you for sharing! Your story was extremely uplifting! Praise be to Jesus for new vocations!
 
I’d like to add my thanks as well for sharing!

Let us know how everything goes. 👍
 
Praised be Jesus Christ!!!

I am so grateful for this post. I’ve been discerning a call to the Discalced Carmelites for a few years now. . . I’ve visited two Monasteries over the past three years. I am really drawn to the Buffalo Carmel, and am planning a visit soon.

This post filled me with so much joyful anticipation. . . so many beautiful things I hadn’t expected but love so much!!! I can hardly wait! Whoever else may read this post, please keep me and all religious vocations in your prayers.
 
Praised be Jesus Christ!!!

I am so grateful for this post. I’ve been discerning a call to the Discalced Carmelites for a few years now. . . I’ve visited two Monasteries over the past three years. I am really drawn to the Buffalo Carmel, and am planning a visit soon.

This post filled me with so much joyful anticipation. . . so many beautiful things I hadn’t expected but love so much!!! I can hardly wait! Whoever else may read this post, please keep me and all religious vocations in your prayers.
Please do let us hear back from you on this. I would suggest visiting the Dominican nuns of Buffalo, too, as an assistance in discernment. “Seeing how the other side lives” so to say.

Blessings,
Cloisters
 
Please do let us hear back from you on this. I would suggest visiting the Dominican nuns of Buffalo, too, as an assistance in discernment. “Seeing how the other side lives” so to say.
I will be glad to! And thank you for the suggestion! I may or may not visit the Dominican sisters. . . depending on how easy it is to arrange, time restraints and my schedule. I’m calling on Monday to arrange the trip.

My younger sister is a Dominican Sister of St. Cecilia, and I’ve gotten to spend a lot of time visiting with the Nashville Dominicans at their Motherhouse. They are beautiful and I love them, but I don’t think God is calling me to that order at all. I’ll see if I can swing by the ones in Buffalo while I’m there though - it certainly won’t hurt!!!
 
I was just thinking. . . I wrote down a summary each night in my notebook when I visited the Carmelite convent in Valparaiso, Nebraska and the one in Denmark, Wisconsin. . .should I post what I observed during those visits for other people who feel called to the Discalced Carmelites? and would I do that here or start a new thread. . . or what? What would be most helpful?
 
I will be glad to! And thank you for the suggestion! I may or may not visit the Dominican sisters. . . depending on how easy it is to arrange, time restraints and my schedule. I’m calling on Monday to arrange the trip.

My younger sister is a Dominican Sister of St. Cecilia, and I’ve gotten to spend a lot of time visiting with the Nashville Dominicans at their Motherhouse. They are beautiful and I love them, but I don’t think God is calling me to that order at all. I’ll see if I can swing by the ones in Buffalo while I’m there though - it certainly won’t hurt!!!
ive seen a pic of an ann arbor dominican with her twin sister who is a pcpa. perhaps youre called to be your sister’s prayer powerhouse.

blessings,
cloisters
 
I was just thinking. . . I wrote down a summary each night in my notebook when I visited the Carmelite convent in Valparaiso, Nebraska and the one in Denmark, Wisconsin. . .should I post what I observed during those visits for other people who feel called to the Discalced Carmelites? and would I do that here or start a new thread. . . or what? What would be most helpful?
i think one thread per monastery would be good. would be easier to find.

blessings,
cloisters
 
You young people are so fortunate to have the internet when it comes to finding out and reading about different communities and religious orders. Back in the “old days”, we had to do a lot of leg work. If a monastery didn’t exist in our diocese, we had to go to use our ingenuity to find out where they were. No Carmel was in my diocese. They didn’t advertise either for vocations, But, Our Lord leads you step by step. Where there is a will, there is always a way. 🙂
 
You young people are so fortunate to have the internet when it comes to finding out and reading about different communities and religious orders. Back in the “old days”, we had to do a lot of leg work. If a monastery didn’t exist in our diocese, we had to go to use our ingenuity to find out where they were. No Carmel was in my diocese. They didn’t advertise either for vocations, But, Our Lord leads you step by step. Where there is a will, there is always a way. 🙂
Isn’t that the truth.

When my organization first started in 1988, we had the “blue book” and Catholic Almanac available to us. We went through and wrote down the addresses of all of the cloisters, then wrote them, asking for their ‘prelims’ – preliminary tri-fold brochures. These we put in churches. The method worked.

Now we have this:

cloisters.tripod.com/

Blessings,
Cloisters
 
I agree! God spoils us!

Okay 🙂 I finished both threads. I hope they are helpful to someone. I called Buffalo on Monday. . .we had a good long conversation - lots of questions. They will call back soon to arrange a visit. They have to figure out a good time. I can hardly wait. <3 My Jesus My Jesus My Jesus. <3

Keep me in your prayers, please!
 
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