Baptist vs EFCA question - help appreciated!

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Greetings folks! I’m asking for some help in this post. My best friend is having a little trouble finding a new church to attend after moving to a new city. I’ll start by giving you some background, so any help you might offer will be better informed!

She was raised in a pretty conservative/fundamentalist type of Baptist church in Northern Iowa (parents are very EX-Catholics. 😉 ) But, for the last several years, she has been going to a very contemporary Baptist church in Cedar Falls, IA (Prairie Lakes Church.)

Prairie Lakes Church USED to be called “First Baptist” until somewhat recently, when they built a new center and moved their congregation out towards the edge of the city. The worship-style there (I’ve been several times with her) is very contemporary and I think the church has and will continue to be benefited from the larger worship center (styled sort of like a concert hall) and new technology: large projection screen TVs, great sound system, an impressive light show, and an overall very high-tech auditorium/stage for their weekly Sunday performance-style services. Additionally, their head Pastor (John Fuller) is an EXTREMELY (notice the caps!) gifted speaker – very charismatic, intelligent, and friendly.

Now, after a recent move to Iowa City, IA… she is having trouble finding a church on par with her last one.

I have to admit, quite frankly, that I am hoping (in part) that her experience may lead her to see that her need to even GO “church-shopping” is actually part of the problem. And that maybe, her frustration will lead her to see that her looking for a church based on the worship style and strength of the pastor is somewhat superficial… and that maybe she will start asking those tough questions… like, “What should really be important to me?” I feel a little guilty for harboring these kinds of feelings though, I want to be charitable and my main concern is (definitely) that she grows in her faith and grows closer to God… but I am also sort of hoping this difficulty may be part of the road that will lead her “Rome-ward.” 😉 After all, I doubt an entertaining concert-style worship service and a Dale Carnegie type of pastor is really what the Body of Christ is about. 😉 But, I digress. 😉

The issue she is having is that all the Baptist churches she has looked into (in her new city) have not made her feel comfortable, or their worship service was not “even close” to what it was like at her old church (Prairie Lakes Church.) So, she’s considering leaving the Baptist “denomination” for a church called “Parkview Evangelical Free Church.” After having been to a service, she described it as “similar” to what her old church and worship service was like. I made the journey to attend a service myself… and though it was not as large, technologically “enhanced,” or endowed with a pastor as personable as John Fuller – the overall feel was very much the same… as was the service format (in my opinion,) of the first 2/4’s being singing, the 3rd quarter being a general Protestant bible-study, and the final quarter being more singing (from my recollection.)

So, what advice can I give someone who is definitely not interested (at all) in Catholicism - about church shopping? And my main and most important question… what is(are) the difference(s) between contemporary Baptist churches and churches belonging to the Evangelical Free Church of America denomination? I have Frank S. Mead’s “Handbook of Denominations in the United States.” But what it says about the EFCA is very limited and is almost exactly what is on the EFCA’s website. Are there any doctrinal (major or minor) conflicts between these two traditions - Baptist v. EFCA? Please, any EFCA members, Baptists, or anybody else who is familiar with both… please let me know what the low-down is on these two different Christian traditions.

Sorry this was so long!!! Sincerely.

May the Lord be with you all!

Jason
 
Jmj

Hello allischalmers! Thank you very much for your response. But, I have to say… I don’t think your suggestion will help much. She has already checked out her local Baptist churches… and found them lacking in regards to what she was looking for (including the ONLY church recommended on that website you generously provided. ;))

I wasn’t looking for a suggestion of what Baptist church she could try… like I said, she’s already crossed them all off her list. What I’m trying to find out is… now that she’s considering joining an EFCA church, what differences can she expect to encounter as a result of leaving the Baptist denomination (or tradition if you prefer) for this particular denomination? What doctrinal differences (major or minor) separate Baptist-Christians from Evangelical Free Church-Christians? See what I’m saying now?

I know it’s a complicated question I’m asking… answering it probably requires someone being familiar with both denominations. But, like I said… ANY (name removed by moderator)ut would be appreciated greatly! Thanks!

May the Lord be with you!

Jason
 
Hi J, why not let her know that she is more than welcome to join you for mass whenever she feels the need to seek the Father, just for the interim until she locates her new baptist home.

Other than that… pray, pray, pray, (with her & for her) that she finds the home where Our Lord truly wants her to be.

Not much else can be done!

Peace!
 
Oddly enough I spoke with someone about this once!!
What he said was the differnce between the two in a practical manner…not theology or doctrine…was that EFCA do not have as much emphasis on the altar call in the service and that the EFCA was a little more in-depth in their sermons. A little more scholarly if you will. For what it is worth.
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Honestly, my friend, there’s not much difference. I grew up in Southern Baptist Churches, attended a conservative Baptist church here in Iowa and have attended EFCA churches. They are basically the same. Both pride themselves in liberty and hold the Bible as their source of authority.

I didn’t see any differences in worship styles. But remember, every church even within denominations is different. The local people flavor their particular congregation. And, since each one is autonomous, they are free to worship how they choose.

So, can’t help you much except to say that the wrong question is being asked really.

Peace…
 
Hi there. I attended a Southern Baptist Chuch when I lived in Florida & then an Evangelical Free Church for several years when we moved to Illiniois. I think theologically they are very similar - although I would agree that MY experience was that I learned alot more at the E-Free Church - Bible wise. It may have just been my particular Pastor, who was a very good speaker/teacher?

Another difference that I noticed was - IN MY EXPERIENCE - there was a much stronger anti-Catholic feel at the Evangelcial Free Church rather than at the S. Baptist Church. I personally knew several people who were former Catholics at the E-Free church who were quite vocal against the Church - our Pastor’s wife grew up Catholic and we prayed all the time that her parents would “come to Christ” (despite the fact that they were devout Catholics who attended mass regularly). I also had a friend who grew up Catholic but was now attending the E-Free Church & he wanted to help out with the youth group. There was a big stink about that because he refused to “denounce” his Catholic upbringing and admit that his entire devoutly Catholic family were actually “not Christians.” 😦

I don’t think there were nearly as many Catholics in the town where I lived in back in Florida - so maybe that’s why the Baptists didn’t have much to say about them?

I made wonderful, strong Christian friends at both churches… if your friend isn’t interested in our Church, and she can’t find a Baptist church she likes - I think the Evangleical Free Church would probably suit her fine.
 
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