Barbara Walters...geeze louise...so much for female role model

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As an adoptive mom, I have not breast fed. However, I have many Catholic mom friends who have lots of kids. They all nurse their babies. Most of the time, they are very discreet with a small light weight blanket, etc. Some, though, er, shall we say “let it all hang out”? This is just not necessary. I know I feel uncomfortable if a nursing mom just opens up her shirt in front of everyone and latches her baby on (were talking her entire breast showing!!!). I know it’s natural and everything. DON"T GET ME WRONG!!! It’s perfectly FINE to nurse in public-----just do it discreetly.

Sorry leaner. I got a little off topic. It was uncalled for to refer to breastfeeding as “gross and disgusting”. I’ve never cared much for Barbara Walters.
 
Yes, well – I’m not talking about the “whip it out and make a stripper blush” kind…I don’t much like them either…LOL! But I don’t feel you should have to smother your child under a blanket (most hate that by the way, and it just makes it MORE likely to provide a free show when they’re wrestling you to get the blanket off) just because there’s a slim chance (like you said, 99% are modest and discreet) someone might see fleshtones…for heavens sake, I see more T (and quite a bit of A, I might add) at the beach here…

And any mom who’s nursed a babe (not any sort of comment on those who haven’t) knows if there’s “nip” showing, you have MUCH PAIN, so that’s not really much of an issue either (that was one of the arguments on another board of mine…when it “all” shows – that hurts like the dickens, so you can bet it’s not really an issue!LOL!)

(I sure use a lot of () don’t I??)
 
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leaner:
not that she ever was much of one to begin with…but apparently she made a comment that breastfeeding in public was “gross and disgusting” – just wondering how others “viewed” that pearl of idiocy from a supposed American Icon…{{shudder}}

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I have not read the entire quote and I am no fan of Walters, but to be honest it seems that the PC police are out. One may never dissent from popular culture edicts without some group loudly protesting.
 
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I have not read the entire quote and I am no fan of Walters, but to be honest it seems that the PC police are out. One may never dissent from popular culture edicts without some group loudly protesting.
I’ve been under the impression that popular culture is against breastfeeding, except in some circles. Most people stop after three to six months.
 
I didn’t hear what she actually said, though from the discussion this morning on talk radio it sounded like she had said that she was uncomfortable with women breastfeeding in public. I realize that breastfeeding is the healthiest way to go, don’t deny anyone’s right to do it, even in public, and will probably go that way myself when I have kids, but it does make me uncomfortable to see it. I most frequently see it at Mass, and especially there I am glad when women use blankets or make some effort to be modest.
 
I have not read the entire quote and I am no fan of Walters, but to be honest it seems that the PC police are out. One may never dissent from popular culture edicts without some group loudly protesting.
you obviously don’t understand the influence the view ladies have on women, not to mention the forumla companies. i wouldn’t be surprised if they were getting a kick back from mead-johnson

i never use bottles and nurse anywhere my baby is hungry, even in mass, but usually no one even notices.
 
I heard about it too…I was severely disappointed not just with her but at the women that proclaimed the “lactivists” that are nursing in front of her work ( I liked that form of protest…no violence, no bad words, just making a statement with your actions) are exploiting their babies! How incredibly stupid!!! Since when is nursing, no matter where, exploiting your baby? The problem is that people forget what breasts are for …they are for the express purpose of feeding babies!!! The upper crust snooty types that think that it is “inappropriate” to nurse in public are out of touch with reality!!! I agree, you don’t just whip it out for all to see, but you don’t have to hide in an airplane lavatory to feed your baby either.
 
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i won’t register just to look a a link.
Sorry – they didn’t make me register…I had no idea – basically, her words were “it’s gross and disgusting” – she was complaining about a woman nursing her child on the airplane (I guess she would rather have had the baby suffer the agony of ascent/descent – but then she’d be complaining (nicer word than is on the tip of my tongue) about the baby crying…)
 
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I’ve been under the impression that popular culture is against breastfeeding, except in some circles. Most people stop after three to six months.
I think breast feeding is more accepted than ever and more encouraged than in recent decades. I, also, think it has become one more issue that is seen as so important that if one disagrees one is intolerant or stupid. Just read the rest of the posts here and one gets the drift.

I am not against breastfeeding, my wife does it. What I am against is an over reaction by some to Walters personal opinion. It strikes me as an absurd reaction and way over the top.
 
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. It strikes me as an absurd reaction and way over the top.
It’s not absurd when you consider that millions of young, impressionable women watch the show and take what they say very seriously – as if it’s “the way of the world” – many young girls form their opinions based off of what they see on TV (this is why there’s so much outrage over Desperate Housewives, Nip/Tuck, etc etc. and on and on-- not me personally, but there are several threads on it) – young impressionable minds do take what’s on television seriously and make decisions based on it – right or wrong, it’s happening every day around us.

The US has one of the lowest breastfeeding rates in the world. It’s no secret that this country is one of the (if not the) unhealthiest countries in the world when you look at lifestyle choices – in many areas. Obesity alone is staggering. The WHO is desperate to up the numbers (not that I’m a big WHO fan…) of breastfeeding mothers, the APA is promoting at least a year of nursing…and here comes Barbara Walters telling young mothers (their target audience, btw) that it’s “gross and disgusting” to do it anywhere people might see you. How does that help? In what possible way can that “empower” a young mother – after all, that is the theme of the show, empowering women and educating, right? By women, for women. But their baseline audience is being “grossly” mislead by someone who postures herself to be on their side. No, it’s not as gross as schools handing out pornography and asking you to pay for it, no it’s not the worst evil out there, it’s just a sad commentary on the mass media and it’s influences in the world.
 
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It’s not absurd when you consider that millions of young, impressionable women watch the show and take what they say very seriously – as if it’s “the way of the world” – many young girls form their opinions based off of what they see on TV (this is why there’s so much outrage over Desperate Housewives, Nip/Tuck, etc etc. and on and on-- not me personally, but there are several threads on it) – young impressionable minds do take what’s on television seriously and make decisions based on it – right or wrong, it’s happening every day around us.

The US has one of the lowest breastfeeding rates in the world. It’s no secret that this country is one of the (if not the) unhealthiest countries in the world when you look at lifestyle choices – in many areas. Obesity alone is staggering. The WHO is desperate to up the numbers (not that I’m a big WHO fan…) of breastfeeding mothers, the APA is promoting at least a year of nursing…and here comes Barbara Walters telling young mothers (their target audience, btw) that it’s “gross and disgusting” to do it anywhere people might see you. How does that help? In what possible way can that “empower” a young mother – after all, that is the theme of the show, empowering women and educating, right? By women, for women. But their baseline audience is being “grossly” mislead by someone who postures herself to be on their side. No, it’s not as gross as schools handing out pornography and asking you to pay for it, no it’s not the worst evil out there, it’s just a sad commentary on the mass media and it’s influences in the world.
Breastfeeding has become a religion to many folks. Walters gave her opinion. I do not worship breastfeeding, WHO, APA, any medical society, The View, Barbara Walters, or those who protest. She gave her opinion. That is all.
 
Barbara Walters probably comes from the generation that did NOT breast feed their babies, (that generation missed out on much in terms of closeness and Health of baby and mother).

I breast fed in public and no one was the wiser. 👍

You know what is really scary though?..Any woman who would look towards Barbara Walters as a role model :eek:
 
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