Being Confirmed tomorrow and I'm having anxiety!

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Mainly because I have a newborn baby girl and I’m worried she’ll be screaming or need to nurse while I’m supposed to up doing something. Or that I’ll mess something up. I’m very excited! But I just keep thinking about all that could go wrong. We don’t have any family who will be attending, so it’s just my husband and me who can care for her and he’s being Confirmed too.

Anyone else being Confirmed anxious or have words of wisdom?
 
Can’t someone watch her for about ten minutes? At my Parish, the Candidates have little to do tomorrow. It’s the Elect who have a lot to do.
 
Mainly because I have a newborn baby girl and I’m worried she’ll be screaming or need to nurse while I’m supposed to up doing something. Or that I’ll mess something up. I’m very excited! But I just keep thinking about all that could go wrong. We don’t have any family who will be attending, so it’s just my husband and me who can care for her and he’s being Confirmed too.

Anyone else being Confirmed anxious or have words of wisdom?
I remember a healing mass I went to as a child and I remember the feeling of being stuck by the Holy Spirit. I’ll never forget how happy I was feeling something so deep.

When it came time for my confirmation I remembered that moment vividly and hoped to feel it again. When the bishop asked my new name I slurred. I was so embarrassed I’m sure the red in my gown was pale in comparison but after being anointed I got that rush again only this time it was gentler like the Holy Spirit was laughing a little and wasn’t keen on knocking me over after that.

I can’t promise you you’ll get that rush like I did but the Holy Spirit deals with us on a case by case.

But if you in tuned to God’s grace I have no doubt you’ll never forget it.
 
:extrahappy: Congratulations! So excited for you. As for your situation, could you pump some breastmilk ahead of time just in case? Is there a nice lady at Church that you know will be there who could watch the baby ?

Either way the best thing to do is to ask the Blessed Mother to help you. She had to take the Baby Jesus to the Temple after all and she knows what it’s like. 👍
 
You’re getting confirmed one at a time, so whoever goes second will be able to keep the baby until whoever goes first has been confirmed. Everything will be fine - God is pleased with your family even if your daughter cries during Mass tomorrow. 🙂
 
Mainly because I have a newborn baby girl and I’m worried she’ll be screaming or need to nurse while I’m supposed to up doing something. Or that I’ll mess something up. I’m very excited! But I just keep thinking about all that could go wrong. We don’t have any family who will be attending, so it’s just my husband and me who can care for her and he’s being Confirmed too.

Anyone else being Confirmed anxious or have words of wisdom?
Don’t worry about that - it’s well known Catholic folklore that screaming babies keep the devil away 😉 She’ll be doing the whole parish a favour:D:thumbsup:
 
Well, In my church, the last time a toddler escaped his parents, and ran all the way up on the alter. The Priest just snagged him, and put him up on his shoulder, which the little boy loved. Then He said, the little boy had a calling (to the priesthood) everyone laughed, and he sent him back to his parents. 👍

Before our new Church had built the Baptismal Font, our Priest decided to use a blow up kiddie pool. He Baptized a whole family, and then encouraged us all to come up, and bless ourselves with the abundance of Holy Water! Well my 2 year old son, dressed in his suit, dashed up there, and fell in! Yep, As he lay on the side of the pool, all the water gushed out, and flooded the first 4 rows! :eek: I never saw people move so fast! I sure wish I had that on film! Ha ha priceless

Ten years later, having not learned their lesson, they asked my son to be an alter server. I said Father! He’s the one that drown us all with Holy Water, and you gave him fire? ha ha. He did almost light his hair on fire! no kidding. Then as He approached the alter, he tripped going up the steps. Father just laughed, and said, “He reminds me, of me!”

Don’t worry about tomorrow. The Priest will tell you what to do, and where to stand. He’s used to it. Just ask an usher if there is a nice lady to hold the baby near you. If she cries you can always just go get her! We are just one big family! Relax - Enjoy!
 
A few years ago, as one of our parishioners was being received into full communion and eager to be confirmed, her toddler daughter escaped from Papa in the nearby pew and, screaming “Maaaaa - maaaaa!” ran up to her mom standing in the front of the church. New Catholic Mama graciously picked up daughter and held her while being confirmed. No catastrophe – everyone seemed to smile, including the pastor.

If a friend cannot watch your baby while you go up to be confirmed, maybe your sponsor can hold your baby while you’re being confirmed (with her left arm, because she is to stand behind you and put her right hand on your shoulder).

Congratulations, and happy Easter!
 
Mainly because I have a newborn baby girl and I’m worried she’ll be screaming or need to nurse while I’m supposed to up doing something. Or that I’ll mess something up. I’m very excited! But I just keep thinking about all that could go wrong. We don’t have any family who will be attending, so it’s just my husband and me who can care for her and he’s being Confirmed too.

Anyone else being Confirmed anxious or have words of wisdom?
Yes. Satan doesn’t want you to do it. You will receive real power, the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit: (Knowledge, Understanding, Wisdom, Counsel, Piety, Fortitude and Fear-of-the-Lord (also called wonder and awe) !).

This will make you a consort battleship … ready for anything, not only able to stand strong yourself, but to enlighten, inspire, console and encourage others. No wonder you have anxiety.

But you will do it. It won’t be hard. At this time tomorrow you’ll have put it behind you and never think of the pre-game jitters you had again. 🙂

Try to remember that you HAVE these gifts afterwards. I got scolded by the Lord (in a nice way) once when I approached in prayer as if I were wringing my hands helplessly.

He reminded me that I had these gifts at my disposal, so to go forth like an adult Christian and stop acting like an infant one. 👍

Have a WONDERFUL day Abrigham, and bask in his love and power! :clapping::dancing::extrahappy:
 
Don’t worry about it. Even if there is a bit of a commotion when the baby is being passed between you and your husband or whoever will be helping you - it is not a disaster. Perhaps you could carry her in your arms while you are up there. What I always find helpful is to feed a baby just before an event when it would be preferable for the little angel to be asleep.

Congrats!!
 
Thank you all! I love the community of this Church. You can always make me laugh and feel more comfortable. 🙂

I mentioned to my sponsor that I’d probably need to hold her while being Confirmed and asked if she thought anyone would mind and she said “Are you kidding??? That would be so beautiful!”
 
Thank you all! I love the community of this Church. You can always make me laugh and feel more comfortable. 🙂

I mentioned to my sponsor that I’d probably need to hold her while being Confirmed and asked if she thought anyone would mind and she said “Are you kidding??? That would be so beautiful!”
Hope it all went well Abrigham! Very happy for you. 👍
 
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