Being receptive of others' point of view

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Another reflection from Thomas Merton…
THOMAS MERTON REFLECTION for the week of September 19, 2005

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“The dread of being open to the ideas of others generally comes from our hidden insecurity about our own convictions. We fear that we may be “converted” – or perverted – by a pernicious doctrine. On the other hand, if we are mature and objective in our open-mindedness, we may find that viewing things from a basically different perspective – that of our adversary – we discover our own truth in a new light and are able to understand our own ideal more realistically.
Our willingness to take an alternative approach to a problem will perhaps relax the obsessive fixation of the adversary on his view, which he believes is the only reasonable possibility and which he is determined to impose on everyone else by coercion…This mission of Christian humility in social life is not merely to edify, but to keep minds open to many alternatives. The rigidity of a certain type of Christian thought has seriously impaired this capacity, which nonviolence must recover. ”
http://www.mertonfoundation.org/merton.php3?page=quote.ext

From** Passion For Peace by Thomas Merton**
Edited by William H. Shannon (New York: Crossroad Publishing 1995), pgs. 255-
 
Dear Barbara,
Thanks you for your fine post. It’s inspiring and true.
 
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anJayRN:
Dear Barbara,
Thanks you for your fine post. It’s inspiring and true.
…Thank you…I certainly learnt something about myself from the quote…and smarted a little…but a reference note for the future…growth = change…or trying to change!

All the best anJayRN

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BarbaraTherese:
Another reflection from Thomas Merton…
THOMAS MERTON REFLECTION for the week of September 19, 2005

It is possible to receive a weekly email with a reflection from Thomas Merton…….register on Thomas Merton Foundation site: http://www.mertonfoundation.org/

“The dread of being open to the ideas of others generally comes from our hidden insecurity about our own convictions. We fear that we may be “converted” – or perverted – by a pernicious doctrine. On the other hand, if we are mature and objective in our open-mindedness, we may find that viewing things from a basically different perspective – that of our adversary – we discover our own truth in a new light and are able to understand our own ideal more realistically.
Our willingness to take an alternative approach to a problem will perhaps relax the obsessive fixation of the adversary on his view, which he believes is the only reasonable possibility and which he is determined to impose on everyone else by coercion…This mission of Christian humility in social life is not merely to edify, but to keep minds open to many alternatives. The rigidity of a certain type of Christian thought has seriously impaired this capacity, which nonviolence must recover. ”
http://www.mertonfoundation.org/merton.php3?page=quote.ext

From** Passion For Peace by Thomas Merton**
Edited by William H. Shannon (New York: Crossroad Publishing 1995), pgs. 255-
My first reaction to that was a quote I heard from Chesterton that states to the affect that **having an open mind is like having an open mouth. The idea is to shut it on something good and solid. **

Having reread Merton’s quote a second time, it does seem reasonable in light of GK’s quote., I suppose it depends on where you’re coming from and where you want to go so to speak.
 
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Ambrose:
My first reaction to that was a quote I heard from Chesterton that states to the affect that **having an open mind is like having an open mouth. The idea is to shut it on something good and solid. **

Having reread Merton’s quote a second time, it does seem reasonable in light of GK’s quote., I suppose it depends on where you’re coming from and where you want to go so to speak.
mmmmmmmmm…interesting comments… thought provoking…

Thanks Ambrose…Barbhttp://bestsmileys.com/smoking/8.gif
 
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WanderAimlessly:
Yes, they have a right to their opinion (as long as it is not false or slanderous), but I have the right to not listen to it.
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