30-some-odd years ago, before we were married, my wife gave me a three-bar cross and chain (she is Roman Catholic, I am Byzantine Catholic).
The three-bar cross is associated with many of the Eastern Catholic Churches, as well as the Orthodox Church - unlike the customary Latin cross, it has three cross bars instead of one; a short bar above the customary arm bar, representing the sign placed on Our Lord’s Cross and another short, slanted bar at the foot.
As uncommon as it is to find three-bar crosses in jewelry stores today, it was even more so 30+ years ago. Unable to find one in the stores, she actually commissioned a jeweler to hand cut one from a sheet of sterling silver for me (despite her less-than-meager clerk’s salary!). Except for the occasion of a few unavoidable medical procedures and the replacement of the chain, in 30+ years it has not been off my neck.
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