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BernadetteM
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I just wanted some thoughts from you all about a message that was read to our parish today during Mass.
It was from the Bishop who had done the 5 years visit to our parish a few months ago.
Our parish is traditional, the priest faces ad orietem, we receive kneeling and most of the people receive on the tongue.
From visiting several other parishes and from what I see posted on CAF, most parishes distribute Holy Communion to members standing and in the hand. I have read several posts that state that the person who wants to receive kneeling and on the tongue or just on the tongue feel intimidated, also some have been denied Communion kneeling. In fact, when my grandchildren were to receive their First Holy Communion, the priest told them to receive only in the hand. They are triplets and the two girls received on the tongue, they are brave, the boy received in the hand.
It appears that at least in 90% of all parishes, standing and in the hand is the norm, and if you wish to receive in a manner which to you is more reverent you feel that the priest might deny you or let you know this is not the norm.
Well this Bishop wrote our priest that he was worried that some people might feel intimidated to receive kneeling and on the tongue implying that in some way our parish was not distributing Holy Communion in an appropriate manner.
The priest read the message and then quoted our Pastor saying the intimidation comes in other parishes. The Pastor also stated that the Holy Father only gives Communion on the tongue while kneeling. I have seen others stand to receive with no problems.
I feel that since we are a more traditional parish that the Bishop is being very unfair. I have a feeling they would like Father to retire so they can send a liberal priest, but if they do, I can promise you there won’t be any parishioners going. As it is some come from over 50 miles to our parish. Many just for the OF. We also have the EF on Sundays and some other days.
Any thoughts on this issue. I am praying that Archbishop Gomez who will be over the LA diocese soon, although not ours will be able to stop some of these Bishops who do not like the more orthodox and traditional parishes from practicing legitimate forms within the Mass. I believe that an Archbishop, who will probably soon be named a Cardinal influences all the dioceses in surrounding areas.
Yours in the Hearts of Jesus and Mary
Bernadette
It was from the Bishop who had done the 5 years visit to our parish a few months ago.
Our parish is traditional, the priest faces ad orietem, we receive kneeling and most of the people receive on the tongue.
From visiting several other parishes and from what I see posted on CAF, most parishes distribute Holy Communion to members standing and in the hand. I have read several posts that state that the person who wants to receive kneeling and on the tongue or just on the tongue feel intimidated, also some have been denied Communion kneeling. In fact, when my grandchildren were to receive their First Holy Communion, the priest told them to receive only in the hand. They are triplets and the two girls received on the tongue, they are brave, the boy received in the hand.
It appears that at least in 90% of all parishes, standing and in the hand is the norm, and if you wish to receive in a manner which to you is more reverent you feel that the priest might deny you or let you know this is not the norm.
Well this Bishop wrote our priest that he was worried that some people might feel intimidated to receive kneeling and on the tongue implying that in some way our parish was not distributing Holy Communion in an appropriate manner.
The priest read the message and then quoted our Pastor saying the intimidation comes in other parishes. The Pastor also stated that the Holy Father only gives Communion on the tongue while kneeling. I have seen others stand to receive with no problems.
I feel that since we are a more traditional parish that the Bishop is being very unfair. I have a feeling they would like Father to retire so they can send a liberal priest, but if they do, I can promise you there won’t be any parishioners going. As it is some come from over 50 miles to our parish. Many just for the OF. We also have the EF on Sundays and some other days.
Any thoughts on this issue. I am praying that Archbishop Gomez who will be over the LA diocese soon, although not ours will be able to stop some of these Bishops who do not like the more orthodox and traditional parishes from practicing legitimate forms within the Mass. I believe that an Archbishop, who will probably soon be named a Cardinal influences all the dioceses in surrounding areas.
Yours in the Hearts of Jesus and Mary
Bernadette