Calling people names

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Someone was talking to me in a chat and said in the gospels Jesus says if you call anyone a fool you’re in danger of hell…but then he pointed out the people like Paul called people fools. What is a good explanation of what Jesus meant? Also, I have called some people names in a chat room before…is that a mortal sin? Does it depend on what circumstance it was, are there mitigating factors? I’m not sure how to think about this point.
 
There are always circumstances that need to be considered when looking at sins. For example, even though God said “Thou shalt not kill”, if a person breaks into your home and tries to kill you and there is no other course of action, it would not be a sin to kill that person to defend your life.

So, if you have to call someone a fool to save your life… 😛

Actually, I think it depends on the situation. Peter was such a loving man who wanted to bring everyone to God so much, even when he called people “fools”, I bet he meant it with love! If you call someone a fool to hurt them, that would be a sin. But if you and your friends are goofing around, and you call them a fool and they laugh, that’s not a sin.

Also, your chat-room friend is taking the Bible a touch too literally in that. God did not mean that anyone who uses the word “fool” is doomed to hell. It would be useful if I knew the exact quote in context, but I would guess that your friend is probably reading a part where Jesus is warning us not to declare that others are going to hell (like to say, “You’re such a fool, you’re going to hell!”). That’s my guess at least.
 
“Oh you Stupid Galatians!” - St Paul in Galatians…somewhere 😛

I concur, it depends a great deal on the context. Perhaps it refers to people who refuse to listen to people they have decided are “fools”.

OR (as I sit here pondering :rolleyes: ) it could refer to causing others to “stumble in faith” by calling them names. For example, when someone tries to convert by attacking the other persons intelligence, “you’re a fool if you believe in sola scriptura,” which would then turn them away from the Truth.
 
The verse is probably Mt 5:22, which is in this partial paragraph:

21 "You have heard that it was said to the men of old, You shall not kill; and whoever kills shall be liable to judgment.' **22** But I say to you that every one who is angry with his brother shall be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother shall be liable to the council, and whoever says, You fool!’ shall be liable to the hell of fire. 23 So if you are offering your gift at the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24 leave your gift there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.

Matt 5:21-24 (RSV)

Apparently, calling someone a fool is worse than calling them worthless, which is the translation of “raca.”

I would think that the problem is along the lines of receiving the Eucharist with anger (one of the seven deadlies) in your heart, rather than forbidding the use of a certain word. (Especially a word that appears more than 50 times in the Bible!)
 
From St. John’s Dark Night, we can see the real error for spiritual beginners is to condemn each other in one’s heart. I’m fairly confident this is the kind of thing Jesus talked about.

I can think somebody “foolish” and maybe that doesn’t even bother me, but if I call him “you fool” because I have judged him less worthy than myself, than I’m in a house built on sand.

Here’s some information about condemning in one’s heart, which helps me understand what Christ was talking about:
St. John of the Cross:
***CHAPTER II *** Of certain spiritual imperfections which beginners have with respect to the habit of pride.

AS these beginners feel themselves to be very fervent and diligent in spiritual things and devout exercises, from this prosperity (although it is true that holy things of their own nature cause humility) there often comes to them, through their imperfections, a certain kind of secret pride, whence they come to have some degree of satisfaction with their works and with themselves. And hence there comes to them likewise a certain desire, which is somewhat vain, and at times very vain, to speak of spiritual things in the presence of others, and sometimes even to teach such things rather than to learn them. They condemn others in their heart when they see that they have not the kind of devotion which they themselves desire; and sometimes they even say this in words, herein resembling the Pharisee, who boasted of himself, praising God for his own good works and despising the publican.
  1. In these persons the devil often increases the fervour that they have and the desire to perform these and other works more frequently, so that their pride and presumption may grow greater. For the devil knows quite well that all these works and virtues which they perform are not only valueless to them, but even become vices in them. And such a degree of evil are some of these persons wont to reach that they would have none appear good save themselves; and thus, in deed and word, whenever the opportunity occurs, they condemn them and slander them, beholding the mote in their brother’s eye and not considering the beam which is in their own;they strain at another’s gnat and themselves swallow a camel.
Alan
 
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