Is God really God to you, or just an idea that is nice. If God is your real God, you follow His commandments. If you love God, you do what He says. Do you REALLY need another reason?
I beleive a lot of young people are living good lives and waiting untill they get married before having Sex. I would say that lots of people through the centuries have waited untill they were married
.Pray to God and our Blessed Mother. Talk to your Priest and ask him to help you. Try and dont be alone to much. Get married as soon as possible. The most important thing is to not loose your Imortal Soul.
My wife and I waited. Neither of us knew anyone else intimately.
That was fifty one years ago. It was hard . I was twenty one. She was twenty. Through prayer and the Sacraments and Gods help we did all right.
Gid bless you both.
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