Can enyone give me some advice about talking?

[sebo3e]

Yeah i whould aprishiate if enyone know very good advice for communication in talking

currently i learned that its best to use instead you i feel or with I starting word

Basically very good idea i got from article but i whould like to know if enyone here is humble whu can show me with gentleness an way to improve in talking

you know when asking questions

I learned never say you are wrong because this is self righteous what i learned

then we can disagree just need to say sorry first which is humble way so my real questions whould be what are best questions to ask when you talk about things like defending our faith from lies?

and what should i avoid using in conversations i learned there is some things i need to avoid

When person dont want to keep up enymore i need to stop because i will argue then
i should not raise voice when i talk that i also learned i hope enyone of you can practice this and i can be shure prayer for that is helpfull pray for humility my freinds its really good things to know

 

[TheLittleLady]

Conversational talking, professional presentations or are you specifically talking about “debates”?

You might watch how Trent Horn debates

For professional presentations, you may want to join “Toastmasters”

Conversation, look people in the eye, listen to people, don’t interrupt them.

One good book is the classic “How To Win Friends And Influence People”.

 

[BartholomewB]

I believe you are in Croatia, is that correct? Are you asking specifically about conversation in English, or conversation in any language, including Croatian?

 

[sebo3e]

Yes i am Croatian i even have trouble with my own language but with english even worse well yeah english is in practice that s why i ask that question could you tell me is there some english words i can learn afther what i currently learned

to use Please then refrain i think i belive in my opinion etc
that s why i ask do you know some good questions i can answer or ask in talking to learn more english words and remove bad ones what could cause arguments

Yet sadly because of my learning disablity its hard to learn so much as i forget what i learned

 

[sebo3e]

Thanks for the link also oh no that s not what i asked if possible to read my question again please?

my question was based on to learn to listen more and quesiton the right question withoud argument that i can always mention question afther question and improve english words and remove words what s basically judgmentall

for example i belive or what do you think etc something like this

 

[Theo520]

Learning to listen is more important than learning to talk

It also sounds like you struggle a bit when debating or arguing with others. This is a pervasive problem and not unique to you. One of the groups I do with teens in our juvie diversion program is to teach them how to fight fair with their parents. There is plenty of material out there to guide you on this, most centered on fighting with your spouse but it’s still good advice for any discussion. One of the recurring themes is to use “I feel” or “I think” rather than the dreaded “You …”