Can my husband use a vibrator to stimulate me before intercourse is completed?

[Vico]

If you think that solution though is sufficient for all couples, wouldn’t that imply that manual stimulation is unnecessary? Anyway, I’m done arguing with you.

Your original remark was: “Like so many people have said (and if you knew a thing about Kinsey’s findings – regardless of how controversial they are), you’d know that most women do not climax during intercourse and that it is actually very difficult for husband and wife to climax together.”

Yes, if the goal is female climax, then increasing length of non-genital foreplay may not be sufficient. Nor may increasing the length of coitus.

It is an extremenly complex topic that is dependent upon the psychogical state, physical condition, and physical techniques used, and that has been the subject of many medical and psychological studies, books, and for which there are specialists.