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oldburkes
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At almost every Mass I attend, I’m asked to serve as an usher. I enjoy doing it because it gives this old man a way to serve his parish in a small way.
Sometimes I find myself left “in charge” of things. It’s easy enough to find guys to usher and collect, but I don’t like to ask the same people who take up the gifts week after week, even though they don’t mind doing it. I like the idea of giving everyone the chance to be a part of things.
There is a certain couple that I see every week that are very friendly. She is very focused during the Mass, and always takes Communion, but he stays seated in the pews. Alot of people don’t receive the Eucharist for one reason or other, and I just assumed he was working through a challenging time and it wasn’t my business.
One day I asked them to carry up the hosts and wine, and he said," I don’t mind doing it, but I’m not Catholic." As my brain spinned into high gear searching for an appropriate response, I said" Well, it doesn’t bother me, but I’ll have to find out if it’s ok. Thanks anyway". With nobody immediately around to ask, I just went for another couple and decided to ask later, which I have neglected to do until now.
Can anyone tell me if a non-Catholic take the gifts to the Celebrant, or would they have to be a catechumen or something like that?
Sometimes I find myself left “in charge” of things. It’s easy enough to find guys to usher and collect, but I don’t like to ask the same people who take up the gifts week after week, even though they don’t mind doing it. I like the idea of giving everyone the chance to be a part of things.
There is a certain couple that I see every week that are very friendly. She is very focused during the Mass, and always takes Communion, but he stays seated in the pews. Alot of people don’t receive the Eucharist for one reason or other, and I just assumed he was working through a challenging time and it wasn’t my business.
One day I asked them to carry up the hosts and wine, and he said," I don’t mind doing it, but I’m not Catholic." As my brain spinned into high gear searching for an appropriate response, I said" Well, it doesn’t bother me, but I’ll have to find out if it’s ok. Thanks anyway". With nobody immediately around to ask, I just went for another couple and decided to ask later, which I have neglected to do until now.

Can anyone tell me if a non-Catholic take the gifts to the Celebrant, or would they have to be a catechumen or something like that?