Can not abort my child

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My boyfriend has his mind set on abortion. I am almost 3 months pregnant and have children already. I had one abortion. I have promised God a long time ago I would not do another abortion. I agreed with him out of fear of losing him but I cannot stop thinking I cannot go through with it. Please pray for me that God will change his heart before the appointment. God has already changed mine. I need prayer please.
 
I’m praying for you and your boyfriend. May God change your boyfriend’s opinion and may He bless you for your decision to keep your baby. May He also grant you strength and courage.
 
I pray you stay with your decision to keep your child. You are at the point where you have to think about your baby first. Your boyfriend, who I will remember in my prayers should not pressure you. Do not be afraid of loosing him, if he loves you he will stay…God has given you a child to protect, look to Him for strength and courage. The people on this forum are generous with their prayers and alot really care. God bless and keep you…
 
Please cancel the appointment and trust God to take care of you and the baby dear OP,you sound like a caring and good mother who does have her eyes and heart open .Praying for you ,your baby,children and boyfriend.
 
YYour boyfriend is worth losing.

Keep your baby. Your boyfriend doesn’t care about you. If he did he would offer love and support of his baby.

Please stay strong and carry the baby to term.

I’ll keep you in my prayers.
 
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You mention you have had one abortion. My heart breaks for you that this man in your life who cannot possibly comprehend the emotional wounds you already carry from that would ask you to do it again. This man is not marriage material in his current state(ok you can argue none of us were but not like this). Do not remain in a romantic relationship with someone who would ask you to do that.

I pray that mother Mary wraps you in her mantle and her love sets your heart on fire with love for your unborn child. May the Holy Spirit give you the courage to say yes to this little life that needs you and loves you already and soften the hardened heart of this baby’s father.
 
I pray you can have the heroic strength to bring this child to term and do the right thing. You are doing the right thing, stay strong! 🙂
 
Maybe consider looking to see if Project Rachel has any retreats in your area. They may help with healing the emotional scars from your first abortion and would likely surround you with pro-life women to love on you and that baby and give you strength. Stay strong little Momma❤. Our Lady has your back.
 
Praying for you, that you’ll stay strong and keep your baby.
A man who would ask you to do this is a poor risk to stay around in the long term, as well as not a good person to have around if he is leading you into a mortal sin that you don’t want to do.

I agree with looking for some Catholic resources to support you in your decision during this difficult time. Stay strong and God bless you and your babies.
 
Thanks for your kind words and prayer and support I have no one to talk to and this is seriously tormenting me.
 
Find a Catholic or Christian Crisis Pregnancy Center near you, perhaps.
 
Prayers said for you and your future. Nothing to add, all the other posters have said what I think. Be strong and trust in God.
Shalom
 
In which diocese do you live? Maybe we can look up some resources/groups. You and your baby have been on my mind all day.
 
Boston, I have found a great catholic clinic that I will be visiting within the next couple of days. They offer council and support as well as ultrasound.
I am praying that I don’t have to do this alone. Praying he can come to accept this. So that we can move forward. I am truly afraid to lose him he has been my best friend and we have talked about waiting for more children. But here I am. Thanks so very much I appreciate your prayers.
 
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thine intercession was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of virgins, my mother; to thee do I come, before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me.

Amen.
 
BTW, I just read your info. I bid you welcome and assure you that you are in the right place. I’m going to daily mass (already planned) in less than an hour and will drop your intention into the box.
 
Please also ask to refer you to legal counsel for eventual child support.
 
Still praying for you. Just got back from my post-mass errands but wanted you to know I put three people on the little slip of paper: you, your baby, and your boyfriend. Remember, He is with you always, even unto the end of the age. Keep us updated, okay? ut benedicat tibi Deus, Momma!
 
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