Can (should) non-religious items be blessed?

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I have an…odd question. I’ve tried Googling but I’m not finding any answers, so I’m hoping someone here can shed some light on the subject.

My mother’s cousin lost her husband to lung cancer/Alzheimer’s last week. She is a Catholic, but he was not (although he didn’t practice his own religion, either.) Their children are all Catholic, and his funeral and burial were presided over by a priest. He was also laid to rest in a Catholic cemetery.

His widow had some keychains made by the funeral home, with his picture on them. No prayer or anything, just a regular keychain with a picture of him on each side. My mother was talking to her this evening and it came up in conversation that before she gives the keychains to various family members, she plans to ask our priest (the priest who presided over everything for him) to bless the keychains.

My mother is completely shocked by the idea; she doesn’t think it’s proper to have “secular” items like these keychains blessed by a priest. I tend to agree with her (after all, there is absolutely nothing “holy” about these keychains, nor can they be said to have any kind of significance in any religious sense) but I could be wrong. I had my guitar blessed a few years ago, but then again, I use it at Mass, so…I don’t know. Again, I really don’t know the answer.

Can anyone shed any light on this? Is it wrong to bless something as “trivial” as a keychain, or can you just bless any old item you please?
 
I would think it’s up to the priest. In general, priest only bless objects of a religious/devotional nature.

But who knows. 🤷
 
Oh my gosh! Of course it’s fine!

Wow, I can’t believe you would ask, but I get anything blessed. There is nothing wrong with it.

Don’t believe me? Consult the Catholic Book of Blessings that every priest should have:

The Roman Ritual
 
Fr. Bill Shergold blessing motorbikes in the '60s.

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Reverend Canon Thomas P. Miller S.T.M., of the Cathedral Church of St. John the Divine blessing bikes in New York.


Animals arrive at the Vatican for their annual blessing:

 
Oh, I forgot about those! Boats too. Priests bless boats.

I stand corrected. 🙂
 
I’m fortunate to have a copy of the old Roman Ritual from the 1940’s. In it are blessings for locomotives, telegraph keys, boilers, the marital bed, seeds, fields – and beer! I think it would be touching and meaningful if a priest or deacon blessed the keychain pictures you mentioned.
 
+JMJ+

I had my pencils to be used in a licensure exam blessed by our parish priest. I have to say it worked 😃
 
Oh my gosh! Of course it’s fine!

Wow, I can’t believe you would ask, but I get anything blessed. There is nothing wrong with it.

Don’t believe me? Consult the Catholic Book of Blessings that every priest should have:

The Roman Ritual
…I believe you. Why wouldn’t I?

I’m not judging anyone, I just…wanted to know if it was something that was done. I had never heard of it before.

And I asked because I didn’t know the answer, and I felt that it was okay to ask. I have to say, though…your response certainly made me think twice about ever asking here again about anything that might be seen as a silly question.
 
Fr. Bill Shergold blessing motorbikes in the '60s.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_lVCC9aDAL...9c/BCur59clABk/s400/bill_shergold_service.jpg

Reverend Canon Thomas P. Miller S.T.M., of the Cathedral Church of St. John the Divine blessing bikes in New York.
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_atrK-jBKJ...Q/4ukv3h6746U/s1600/blessing+of+the+bikes.bmp

Animals arrive at the Vatican for their annual blessing:

http://www.catholicnewsagency.com/i...astri_2_CNA_Vatican_Catholic_News_1_17_12.jpg
I had heard of motorbikes being blessed, and I have attended masses where animals were blessed. I guess the reason I wasn’t sure about the keychain issue is because…well, motorbikes and other modes of transport carry people. And animals…well, they’re living creatures. I guess I didn’t think of keychains being in the same “league”, so to speak.
 
I would think it’s up to the priest. In general, priest only bless objects of a religious/devotional nature.

But who knows. 🤷
That’s kind of what I was thinking, too…that it would, in the end, be up to the individual priest. I know that we have had priests in our parish in the past who would definitely not even consider blessing keychains. But our latest priest…well, I have a feeling that even if he didn’t feel it was 100% “okay”, he still wouldn’t say anything if someone specifically asked, because he’s much too nice for that. L
 
…I believe you. Why wouldn’t I?

I’m not judging anyone, I just…wanted to know if it was something that was done. I had never heard of it before.

And I asked because I didn’t know the answer, and I felt that it was okay to ask. I have to say, though…your response certainly made me think twice about ever asking here again about anything that might be seen as a silly question.
No, don’t worry about asking. I suppose some things seem like a common knowledge to me, and some things seem confusing to me. Different things to different people.

It’s not a silly question. It’s a great one. A lot of people are confused about this topic.

I wasn’t trying to be snippy with you. I’m sorry if that’s how my phrasing came across. 🙂
By the way, I usually try to back up my responses with a proof of sorts, which is why I added the link. Plus, I think some of the items in the book are kind of cool.
 
Well keychains guard your coming and your going; they keep the keys to your home and your belongings. They are important. It is good to be blessed as you come and go in your life as you strive to follow the Lord.

At home we did the Epiphany blessing of with blessed chalk on our door lintel.
 
I have an…odd question. I’ve tried Googling but I’m not finding any answers, so I’m hoping someone here can shed some light on the subject.

My mother’s cousin lost her husband to lung cancer/Alzheimer’s last week. She is a Catholic, but he was not (although he didn’t practice his own religion, either.) Their children are all Catholic, and his funeral and burial were presided over by a priest. He was also laid to rest in a Catholic cemetery.

His widow had some keychains made by the funeral home, with his picture on them. No prayer or anything, just a regular keychain with a picture of him on each side. My mother was talking to her this evening and it came up in conversation that before she gives the keychains to various family members, she plans to ask our priest (the priest who presided over everything for him) to bless the keychains.

My mother is completely shocked by the idea; she doesn’t think it’s proper to have “secular” items like these keychains blessed by a priest. I tend to agree with her (after all, there is absolutely nothing “holy” about these keychains, nor can they be said to have any kind of significance in any religious sense) but I could be wrong. I had my guitar blessed a few years ago, but then again, I use it at Mass, so…I don’t know. Again, I really don’t know the answer.

Can anyone shed any light on this? Is it wrong to bless something as “trivial” as a keychain, or can you just bless any old item you please?
Didn’t your mother have her house blessed?
 
Generally speaking, blessings associated with non-living objects are nuanced in one of two ways. In the first way, a blessing is placed on the object, which is then considered to be set aside for sacred use. For example, a cup which is purchased for use with the Eucharist may be blessed, and should not be used for, say, drinking beer while watching a football game.

If an item which has directly received a blessing gets broken (beyond repair) or worn out, it should be disposed of in a reverent fashion, such as by burying it. The idea is that a blessed object should not end up in a trash can or a garbage dump.

The second way may give the appearance that the object is being blessed, but the wording expressed by the clergyman conveys that the blessing is actually for the people who utilize the item. For example, this is what is happening when a car is blessed. The clergyman does not actually say, “May this car be blessed” (or such), but rather calls for the people who will use the car to be blessed (I don’t have a copy of the official blessing in front of me at the moment, but it goes something like, “May those who use this vehicle…”).

In this second case, there is no problem if the object eventually gets thrown out in the trash or ends up in a junk yard.

In the case of the key chains mentioned by the OP, I think that the priest would probably bless them in accordance with the second method I mentioned, seeing as the key chains do not have Christian symbols and key chains are not normally used as a tool to assist in prayer. On the other hand, I could make an argument for it (i.e., the key chain may serve as a reminder to pray for the soul of the deceased man) but the point is, it is ok for the priest to convey a blessing regarding the key chains in one way or another.

And finally, let me say that what I have outlined in this post does not represent a “hard & fast” rule in the Church. Precedence and tradition have allowed for certain non-living objects to directly be blessed in situations where such things are not set aside for sacred use, so I admit that there are exceptions to what I have expressed.
 
Didn’t your mother have her house blessed?
Yes, she did. To me, though (and this is just my personal train of thought), when a house is blessed, it’s not so much about the physical structure of the house, but more about the well-being of the people living in the house.
 
The second way may give the appearance that the object is being blessed, but the wording expressed by the clergyman conveys that the blessing is actually for the people who utilize the item. For example, this is what is happening when a car is blessed. The clergyman does not actually say, “May this car be blessed” (or such), but rather calls for the people who will use the car to be blessed (I don’t have a copy of the official blessing in front of me at the moment, but it goes something like, “May those who use this vehicle…”).
THANK YOU. I was trying my best last night to try and remember the words used by the priest who blessed my guitar, but I could not remember the exact phrasing. But what you’ve pointed out in this paragraph brought it back to me. He didn’t bless the guitar, per se, but did the blessing in a way that asked for the blessing and well-being of the person using the item instead.

The idea of praying that the keychains be a reminder for those who carry them to remember and pray for the deceased person is a lovely one. I guess I just thought of something like that as different from a flat-out “blessing” – to me, that describes something that’s done to religious items.

Thank you for your response! 🙂 I appreciate it.
 
Yes, she did. To me, though (and this is just my personal train of thought), when a house is blessed, it’s not so much about the physical structure of the house, but more about the well-being of the people living in the house.
Its still the house that is being blessed.
Using that train of thought you can argue that by blessing the car keys its for the well-being of those in the car.
 
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