Fidelis:
I think you’re being cowed by the people who are challenging you on this. If they can’t accept the plain meaning of this text and have to explain it away with such weak interpretations, it isn’t that you’re not giving them scriptural proof, it’s just that they are simply refusing to accept it. Not much you can do about that except to not falling into the trap of letting them interpret away what they don’t like, and forcing you to scramble after more and more verses.
No, I’m confident and I know my stuff. The problem is that the faith of a cradle Catholic is at risk. It’s hard to explain the situation exactly, but a couple of her Protestant friends (one is evangelical free, the other calls herself Lutheran but is not by any means Lutheran in her beliefs) have fed her enough anti-Catholic lines that they’ve got her doubting some things, and enough Sola Scriptura stuff that she really doubts things unless they show up in the Bible. Three of us were together today and mortal sins came up. I went right to 1 John, but the “Lutheran” gave a number of objections. Somehow the balance of credibility has gone to the point where my friend accepts what I say with skepticism and what the Protestants say with more authority.
It’s a really troubling situation. It reallly bothers me. It’s not as bad as it could be. For instance, she rejects the EVFree’s claims about OSAS and his antinomianism. That being said, so often this sort of thing is a downward spiral. It’s worse because she’s gotten the religious indifferentism bug. When I speak about things she gets mad at me and says that I think I know everything or I act high and mighty… I try to tell her that I couldn’t care less about being right I just want to get God’s truth out. It’s tough.
Fortunately we are in a Catholic group and she is the President, so she is going to stay Catholic at least through the end of the year. I am going to be doing as many presentations as I can to the group about apologetics. Monday I will be doing the first one, starting with Sola Scriptura. I really feel that it is the single most absurd idea in all of theology and that it can turn her around if she sees the reality of things in that area. It’s the thing that all but singlehandedly brought me to the Church. I really think that SS really, really shows the complete inaneness of Protestantism. I think I’ve got a great talk planned, there are so many points to hit on with it. I really feel if you destroy SS you destroy Protestantism… I think God’s truth can do that Monday…
I do want to give a talk at the beginning trying to point out how we are judging people’s ideas, but not people, and how we have to respect others but we must not be indifferent and can’t put the truth second to worrying about offending people. In other words, both say how important it is to know the truth, but also ease her fears that I am some hate monger or something. Any suggestions?
And please pray for her, and pray for me to help her.
(and for the two Protestants if you get the chance

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