Can't get married because of paranoid mother

[sachinbagde]

On sunday i went to church with my mother.

While my mother was away I gathered all my courage and met a girl whom I see regularly at church.

I am not the guy who would approach every girl I see. I found there was something different about this girl. She had simplicity in her and as we talked she said that she liked interacting with people in real life unlike the social networking.

I felt really nice to meet her and talk to her and her father.

She is 25 and a teacher and her plans are to pursue her career in teaching the blind after she masters Braile.

This led to our conversation an various topics as I was associated with the Blind Association and learnt Braile myself.

As we were chatting my mother approached and asked the girl to step away from me.
I felt so embaressed and sorry for the girl and her dad.

The girl gave me her number on a piece of paper saying that she would like me to call her about Braile.

As soon as my mother and i got into the car she she asked me to get rid of the number as she thought that the girl was a threat and unreliable.

I said ok but i had retained the number,so that i would call her if she did not turn up on sunday.

She was restless in the car till she threw out the piece out of the moving car after constantly nagging for the number.

However as soon as we reached home she picked up a fight that i was a pervert and i was trying to pick up girls at the church.

I stayed calm as i knew it was hopeless to talk sense into her.

I hope if I meet the girl next sunday, i will say sorry to her for not calling.

I wish she and her father understands my situation and forgive for my mothers rude behaviour.

 

[EasterJoy]

…As soon as my mother and i got into the car she she asked me to get rid of the number as she thought that the girl was a threat and unreliable.

I said ok but i had retained the number,so that i would call her if she did not turn up on sunday.

She was restless in the car till she threw out the piece out of the moving car after constantly nagging for the number.

However as soon as we reached home she picked up a fight that i was a pervert and i was trying to pick up girls at the church.

I stayed calm as i knew it was hopeless to talk sense into her…

As you are well aware, the threat who is unreliable is your mother. She is mentally ill. Work out something with your dad so that you can continue to help with her care without actually living with her. This will allow you to continue on with your own life while helping your parents.