I definitely feel for you and know what you’re going through. I was blessed to attend a wonderful, orthodox Catholic college where there was no lack of programs, studies, speakers, and fellowship to help us grow in community and our walk with Christ. After graduating two years ago and being in the “real world” I must admit it has been a culture shock. I know very few people at our parish and it’s so large it’s rare for me to see them at the Mass we attend. I felt very lonely and that there was a definite lack of community and shared discipleship so common in the Gospels and in the church. Have you looked at your diocese website? Or called one of the offices there, such as adult formation, family life, spirituality, etc? Our diocesan site has a wealth of programs and retreats listed that gave me a good start. Also, I attended a couple other churches in the area on weekends and at one was approached by some young adults who were looking to see if I had an interest in their young adult program. Since these types of programs are rare, they took people from all over the area and not just their own parish. It’s turned out to be a lifesaver for me. And looking at other church’s bulletins may tell you about their programs you might be interested in attending. Also, seek out the more “national” organizations such as Couples for Christ, Girlfriends Ulimited, Opus Dei, etc. etc. Retreats are a great way to get to know people and grow spiritually as well (again, your parish or diocesan office will have info on these.) And one more thing - you might consider that God is calling you to serve in a program your parish offers such as bringing the Eucharist to the sick, Bible study, or youth ministry. Though you’re going in it to help others, chances are you will receive the community you need in the process. I hope you find what you’re looking for!
