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Please send some advice my way because I am at a lose. Within the same day, two of my friends asked me to pray for them about desperate situations. Both pleaded to me to explain why God was not answering their prayers and what they could do to facilitate God’s plan in their lives. They both used the same statement, “I don’t get it. I am a good person.”
Both friends are Catholics and attend church weekly. I asked both if they could go to confession and received the response, " I don’t believe in that. I don’t need God to confess."
To further complicate things, one of them is proud of being a Eucharistic Minister, but lives in mortal sin with her boyfriend.
I am not gifted in explaining why we need to go to confession, because for me it is enough to be obedient and go. I cannot respond intelligently as to why “just being a good person” is not enough. Addressing the sexual sins has not worked because I am told I am being unrealistic and they have needs. Besides, “Everyone does it.”
Please help me with a gentle response for people who just think Sunday mass is where it ends.
My friends already think I am an over zealous re-vert, so what ever works for me is too much effort and unnecessary in thier opinion. Yet these two women continue to ask my opinion, but do not want to hear it.
Thanks. I know you folks will have some great humble advice for me.
Both friends are Catholics and attend church weekly. I asked both if they could go to confession and received the response, " I don’t believe in that. I don’t need God to confess."
To further complicate things, one of them is proud of being a Eucharistic Minister, but lives in mortal sin with her boyfriend.
I am not gifted in explaining why we need to go to confession, because for me it is enough to be obedient and go. I cannot respond intelligently as to why “just being a good person” is not enough. Addressing the sexual sins has not worked because I am told I am being unrealistic and they have needs. Besides, “Everyone does it.”
Please help me with a gentle response for people who just think Sunday mass is where it ends.
My friends already think I am an over zealous re-vert, so what ever works for me is too much effort and unnecessary in thier opinion. Yet these two women continue to ask my opinion, but do not want to hear it.
Thanks. I know you folks will have some great humble advice for me.