I would prefer green burial, no embalming, minimal everything, return to the earth as quickly as possible, but due to family sensibilities and finances, I had to agree to conventional American methods and a mausoleum crypt. (It was paid for out of family assets and cost me nothing, another factor in this.) I dislike the arrangement, however, to assert my preferences would have caused massive psychological distress for certain loved ones — one of my aunts was buried naturally, on the farm, wooden coffin, unembalmed, about 80 years ago, and to this day my mother talks about “how the ground sank down in time, and you know what that means”. (Yes, I know what that means — it’s called “nature”.)
I would even prefer to be buried in my own backyard, near my garden and patio, but you have to adhere to certain lot line restrictions (can’t be less than 25 feet from the adjacent property line) that are impossible due to the size of the lot, and besides, the HOA would have a fit. I doubt that the HOA covenants address such a thing, because even if there were no lot line restrictions, this is a neighborhood that caters to a generation where “things like that were just not done”. And it could hurt resale value — I would have no problem with a past owner having been buried naturally, I’d be happy to know that he enjoyed his home and didn’t ever have to leave it (in one sense), but that is not a typical American sentiment. Far from it.