Checking out my Girlfriend

[TheRiver]

It’s completely normal, and since you are here on this forum asking, it shows you do have control and don’t want to cross the line, I guess that’s what keeps the relationship healthy and your mind too, you aren’t going to do whatever you want and lust over her, you are careful.

That reminds me of a story a priest once told me, he was driving and he was at a roundabout, just when he was about to go, he noticed a car hurtling from the right-side so he braked, unfortunately the guy behind him who was like 18 had got distracted by 3 or 4 school-girls that was walking on the side of the road and didn’t happen to notice the priest’s car brake and slammed straight into his car

He got down, and was like “father, forgive me, for I have sinned”

haha.

 

[GraceDK]

Ok, I am a little curious about this. Well first of all, I am new to this girlfriend thing, even though I am 25. (Only had one for a couple weeks before this one - close to 3 months.)

I was wondering what is ok to do or whatever. Last nite we was talking online like we do about every nite. We have webcams, so we get to see each other, because we live a little ways away from each other. - She had been wrapping some presents and then got up to put the stuff away and move the things off her sofa. She probably forgot about her webcam, to pause it or anything. So while she was doing this, I was watching her. The webcam was at her middle height. And she wasn’t facing the webcam, since her sofa was behide where she had been sitting. So ya, I was watching her, checking her out while she was doing all that stuff.

Is it wrong to be checking out my girlfriend’s backside and enjoying seeing it (more than a glace)? (I wasn’t lusting thinking dirty thoughts, but I did enjoy it.) - Also, I definitely took a few glances the last time we did hang out. So what I am asking is…what is ok, and what isn’t ok (or too much) to do or see. (I have warned her about being careful if she has a loose shirt on, but not sure how much looking at her backside or shape is ok?)

Thanx for any responses.

Do only what you want her to do to you…
she is checking you out too without a doubt… hopefully she finds you attractive… checking out your shape as far as she can see it while you are wearing your pants and shirt… if this thought disturbs you then scrutinize your self.